a week

Wooowww!!

A week away to our 1st anniversary.

Sumpah ga kerasa lhoo.. Trus baru ngeh, aku tidak pernah menulis tentang kawinanku seperti layaknya pengantin2 lain.. hauhauhaua..

Mungkin karena:
1. malas
2. gwe sama laki gwe selalu back and forth to MES or CGK.
3. gwe seneng keep it for ourselves.

To be honest, it's not my wedding dream, but my dreams come true having a super husband like mine and yeaahh.. a wonderful marriage. That's the main thing.

1st timeee!!

Betapa noraknya kami, setelah pacaran 8 thnan + 9 bln kawin jauh2an, baru kemaren itu tgl 20 Oktober 2009, kita berdua bisa bener2 ngerayain ulang tahun bareng! Di hari yg sama, biasanya, pending 1 bln lah, 2 minggu lah.. :D

Gila ya kalo dipikir2, kok ya bisa kuat gitu lho selama ini??

Skr aja, kalo ditinggal 1 hariiii aja, mewek deehh.. Beneran, ga lebay bok.. :D

Lanjut,
Laki gwe bkn tipe yg suka kasi surprise (slalu ketauan :p ), trus romantis jg dgn caranya sendiri.. Ga typical cowo2 kebanyakan emang. Hehehe.. Gwe jg udah terbiasa deh tuh yaa..
Ga mungkin bgt dia set-up romantic dinner dimanaa gitu.. Impossible.

Jadi ya, selasa kmrn just like other dinner date, tp temanya: astrido berulangtahun.

Doi males ke tempat rame, ke mall2, hotel etc. Akhirnyaaa.. Makan steak aja deh ;-) yg ga mahal2 hihihi

Tentunya no flowers dsb lho yaa.. We hv certain story to flowers. Hahaha.. Jd stay away flowers!! :p

We had fun, ngobrol2, and u know what? I can still see the way he looks at me, just the same as 9years ago.

I love u, Mr. Veejay!! May we always have great moments in our life ya sayang..

Xoxo,
Mrs. Veejay ;-)
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Happy December

I just can't wait til the happy December comes!

Christmas, good pay-check, and families..

Wish list is queuing now :D
- new camera
- i-p****
- shoes??
- anndd.. Don't forget to safe some!! :-)

Wait wait.. November is coming sooner, we're thinking on how to spend our 1st anniversary.. Ihiiiyyy!! Time flies eh? One year ago, we were back and forth to CGK-MES, need to settling lots of thing for the wedding. What a happy memories! :)

Okay then,
What should we do to celebrate? *thinking*
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Yihaaa

Happy birthday to meee!!!
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Mewek

Wiken ini suami tercinta keluar kota, mikir bakal mati gaya bgt. Huuuu..

Bawa oleh2 ya sayaaannggg!! :*
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Banyak bgt isi kepala gweee!!

Jadi anak paling tua emang repot. At least buat gwe. Eh, menjadi gwe deng yg paling repot. Ga ada hubungannya sama urutan lahir (atau ada? Ah ga tau).

Berangkat kerja ke kantor yg tidak kusukai, tapi hrs kutelan bulat2 saja nasibku ini. Sampe di kantor, buka e-mail, cetak cetik, sortir dulu mana yg perlu gwe bales, mana yg dicuekin aja :p

Liat daftar things to do hari itu. Hoeks. Mau muntah.

Dpt telpon dr suami, disuruh ngurusin urusan banking (laki gwe males sm bank2an), yak swift ke household mode dulu. Beres, coba konsen lg.

Ga lama terima telpon lg dr nyokap, yaa.. Berkeluh kesah sana-sini.. Aku dengarkan saja, kasi input yg mudah2an berguna.

Telpon bunyi lagi, bos gwe. Meradang gara2 salah 1 org di kantor tidak jelas, disuruh ambil alih, siap laksanakan!!

Bbm gwe bunyi, bapak gwe minta proof-read e-mail dia supaya org Vietnam itu mengerti.

Hela napas. Bikin kopi yg asem itu.

Sakit perut gara2 kopi, ngendon di toilet, cari berita2 gosip via domikado sm viigo. Berharap mudah2an leher tegang ini bs kendor.

Ga juga tuh. Masih tegang. Udah bbrp hari ini.

Kembali duduk ke meja, dapet telpon lagi, menanyakan hal yang aku sendiri tidak tahu jawabannya. Hanya bs menghela napas.

Cukup.

Tapi ga bisa gitu doang. Ga bisa cuma cukup, never ending gejolak.

Ngeliat jam, please please fast forward it. Someone?

Begitulah. Sampe rumah masih banyak pekerjaan rumah menanti. Ini jg belom punya anak, tapi semua hal gwe urusin. Even the tiniest thing.

Oia lupa, masih harus sms asisten rumah, utk menu makanan hari ini. Healthy one.

Karena gwe butuh penyeimbang, kepala dan leher gwe mau meledak.

Gotta breath.
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Holiday Plan

We have a family agenda for sure :-) since my father in law is here, and my brother is coming too..

But first of all, visiting eyang2, tante2, pade bude and all relatives! Lebaran means gathering and food!! Wihuuu!! Tante2 udh siap dgn sgala nastar, kastengel.. My fave!!

annnddd.. Don't forget to sungkeman
I love sungkeman :-)

Then, on 21st we'll attend a batak wedding.. Siap2 ulosaann dan nari tor-tor! Hohhoohohho *inang2*

Days after that?? Wisata kuliner!! *hint hint*

PS: sungkeman is not a batak's tradition, but really.. This is the most thing I love about jawa's culture

PPS: I'm so gonna love the traffic during holiday!!
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Libra of the day

Every time you get rid of an old idea, assumption or unwanted item, you make room for a new influx of energy and growth. Today, you could use a big dose of freshness, so see what you can do to empty a few closets (emotional and bedroom alike). Whether you toss out a relationship, a grudge or an old sweater, you'll immediately feel a sense of freedom and relief. You've been released from hanging on to what you thought you needed. The truth is you already have everything you need.
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Jdaanng!!

"Your true passion should feel like breathing; it's that natural." -Oprah Winfrey-

Ketampar banget baca ini :((((
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Family (lil bit) Feud

Agenda hari ini: jemput mertua + mamanya mertua (nenek) di airport. Bingung pulang ke rumah dulu ga ya? Dijamin aku bakal ngantuk seharian ini. Plus pegel2!!

Dari kemaren iparku brisiiikk skali nyerewetin adeknya :D lsg dioper ke gwe, jreng jreng! Diem deh.. Hahahaha.. Kata suamiku, lebih masuk ke kalbu kalo aku yg ngomong.

Biasa deh keluarga besar, punya 1 komandan, jdnya selalu mau mengatur :) yaa.. Walopun utk kebaikan, tp emang kadang2 suka lebay aja..

Kebetulaaann.. Aku pun komandan di rmh. Hahahaha..

Lebaran udah sebentar lagi, keluarga bakal berdatangan, kebetulan ngerayain lebaran jg plus ada kawinan. Tambah ramaaiii.. Hihihi.. Can't wait! :-D
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Mighty Heart

Hari Selasa, jam 21, ruang tv nonton HBO:

Pulang kantor, capee bgt! Leyeh2 berdua sambil ngemil jus alpukat. Pak Pan nyetel film Mighty Heart soalnya yg maen si bibir tebal Angelina Jolie.

Filmnya ttg pasutri jurnalis di Pakistan, issue ttg terorisme, suaminya diculik teroris, ilang entah dimana rimbanya kira2 lebih 3 bulan, mbak jolie critanya lg hamil 5 bulan. Sedih bgt deh pokoknya, lg hamil ehh suami diculik, tapi tabah bgt jd istri, bener2 deh.

Nangislah gueeee.. Hehehe.. PMS campur pengalaman laki gwe ilang minggu lalu! Hehehe.. I know I know.. Mungkin pd bilang gwe lebay lah, hiperbola lah.. Tp beneran, gwe kira dia kenapa2 :( tks GOD dia ga knapa2.

Jadi critanya, gwe bingung kok ya tumben, laki gwe ga ngabarin seharian! Ga blg kalo dia udh smp rmh, ga kbrin makan apa, ga nanyain gwe makan apa, ga ngabarin jemput gwe. Pokoknya ga ngabarin apa2 deehh.. Dr sebel2 ngambek gara2 bbm ga dibales, telpon ga diangkat, smp marah ngamuk2 di sms, smp akhirnya streeessssss bgt mikir dia kenapa2 di jalan, pokoknya udh kemana2 dah nih otak :(

Telpon bapakku, udh standby mau ke nyari si abang jampang ke kantornya ato kemanapun lah..

Asli.. Udh nangis2 di kantor kaya org gilak, org blg dia mau ngasi surprise kalee, ato dia lg marah kali sm lo.. Sumpaaahh.. Semarah2nya pasti dia ngasi kabarrr

Akhirnya waktu sudah menunjukkan jam 17, aku harus ambil tindakan. Telpon ke asisten si mbak di rumah, ternyataaaaaa... Kt dia emang ada bunyi henpon seharian ini dr dalam kamar!!! Gwe suruh cek lg, tnyata beneran ada di dlm kamar, pantesan gwe bingung kok di googlemaps posisi dia ada di rumah? Sumprit ga kpikiran kalo hp dia dua2nya ktinggalan di rumah!!

Tapi tetep mikir, ya masa sih ga kbrin gwe sm skali?? Mbok ya nelpon dari kantor, ato email, ato apa keeekkk!!

Akhirnya cepet2 lari ke lift turun, ting **
Dia sdg duduk di lobby

Ya ampun Tuhaaannn.. Puji Tuhan dia ga kenapa2, sehat!!

Mukenya tekuk 7, tp ga peduli gwe cubitin, pgnnya sih dicium ajah, tp apa daya lg di kantor! Hihihihi

Sambil ngomel2 gwe critain betapa stressnya gwe dia ilang MIA seharian, eehhhh... Dia malah ngomel ktnya seharian dia coba telpon gwe tapi ga diangkat2!!! Trus sms gwe jg ga gwe bales2, yak ampyuuunn.. Sumpah ga ada sama sekaliii!!!

Emang dia cuma apal 1 nomer gwe doang, yg 1 lg ga apal bok, krn msh baruuu..

Gwe restart dong tuh ya si putih bapuk, eh beneran lhooooo.. Ada buanyak sms, jd tnyata emang tuh hp lg ngambek deh jd bego gitu :'((

Bener2 deh yaaa.. Teknologi kdg jahaaatt beneur!!

Jangan sampe ada apa2 sama kamu, sayang. Bisa apa aku iniiii..
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:(((

Uurrrgghh... STRESS GILAAAAKKK!!!!!! :((


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Random

- have a lot of going on in my mind

- I gotta do what I gotta do

- Good God, we need U, always.. Please, God?



the subject? Can't share it :)



- I don't think Radja Ketjill is as good as it is used to be, disappointed :(

- I can't wait my trousers to be done

- I love love Mayestik!!! Kue cubit, lupis, klepon, fresh fruits, and not to forget the KAIN!! Hihihi

- I have a very bad 1st day period this month :(( damn! Can't sleep.. Hiks. Luckily I've got my man rubbing me all the time

- we are thinking to buy 'somethin' but I don't think this is the right time, maybe next year, baby?

- I need to check on my knee immediately, it gives me constant ache. It doesn't bring any good to my body if I ignore this, it could be a symptom of something, rite?

- I can't wait to make the kebaya gown.. Special 4 U, Pus.

- last but not least, I'll stand by my man no matter what. :*

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Kangeenn!!

Hehe.. I know this is silly, we're missing each other as soon as we've arrived in office. Though we're together everyday! Cherish the days :-)
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Eaaarrrttthhhquaaakkeee!!

Hari ini gempa.

Pas lg meeting, tiba2 bunyi2 dreett dreett (kaya vibrator, weks?!) kaki+kepala goyang2 amat (kirain gwe pusing2 vertigo), liat2an sama yg laen. GEMPA!!

Langsung deh gwe ngibrit gondol dompet henpon, ke tangga darurat. Ga mikir2in yg laen, yg penting selamet bok!!

Sampe ground, lsg tilpun2in sekeluarga, tulalit tulalit.. Huh!

Tp puji Tuhan, they're all fine..

Semoga smuanya baik2 aja yaa.. :-)
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Mine!!!

Look at this, my wise man :-)
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Rumah si Tante

Kalo kita ngelewatin rumah si Tante dan tak melihat mobil mewah bertengger disitu, suamiku akan blg: eh si Oom lg ga ada. Trus kalo ada tuh mobil, suamiku blh: naahh.. Skr tante dpt jataahh..

Hahahahahaa..

Tante: istri ke-3/4(?) si Oom
Oom: mantan wapres kitah.. Hihihihi
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One Fine Day

.. when I'm with you and believes it's not gonna be just one, but more days and days ahead us ..

I love you so much big baby :-*

XOXO,
Ama
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@pusnita said: best friends are to kept, keep maintaining your besf friends, no matter how busy you are.

Oh Pus, I couldn't agree more. We human sometimes tend to ignore lil things, we think no news is good news, okay.. But, have you ever just say hello to your best friend? Without any further need (nanyain yg lo butuh doang-apalagi kaitannya sama duit etc),
I regret to say this, but I really really have a big time disappointment from my besties.

I don't know when will I manage to have peace for myself, to not think about useless things. I don't mean that my best friends are useless, but how can I not? If you guys are demanding to me, I shall give you attention, give advice etc. U know, I'm only human, normal one, not extraordinary at all! I sometime exhausted to give you a nest, to give you a hug, or anything that you need from me.

This is the time, when I think.. I don't need to give all that to you, I quit, I stop. But yeah.. I still love you guys. Though you might think I'm such a selfish bitch, but have u ever think that you are the one with big ego?

Bottom line is: quit demanding, just quit, would you? I'm in hiatus mode from you guys. I opted to do that :-)
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Say Sorry..

Hey, say sorry like U mean it.

For me, U don't have to say sorry cause u're obligated to, (because Ramadhan is coming) but please say it like U mean it from your heart.

No lip service, please?

Happy Fasting for U!
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No Important Updates

I don't need to announce anything to seek for attention (u think eh celeblog?) to tell u that I'm too lazy to update anything.

Moreover, I post this to insult U. Haa!! :P
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Kebiasaan Baru

Kalo baju2-'nya' ga disiapin dia akan merebahkan badan di atas tempat tidur!!!!

Wkakakakakak.. What a BIG BIG baby!! :D
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This minute

Waiting for my ding-dong bbm tone, from moi hubber, and ready to pick me up!

Waiting...........

PS: I kinda had a bad day today baby, please hurry..
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Changes

1. We don't have to report that much anymore, cos we're in the same house, bed, same car. Everyday!! (Cost reduced :D)
2. We can have meal together
3. We can smell, sniff each other scent, no more perfume exchange!!
4. We can stare each other when we close & open our eyes! Yay!!
5. We don't have to capture our today's outfit anymore!!
6. He won't let me sleep without hugging me :-) and it's not only for >3 days!!! Yippiiee!!

Oh and yeah.. Just realized, LDR sucks!!
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Selamat Siaaaanngg!!

Suamiku sptnya lumayan cepat coping with the new colleagues. Dia ga mau diajak makan siang, nyehehehe.. Lagipula, aku baru selesai meeting, tak bisa juga sih, jelek kamuuhh!! Hohoho..

Sampai ketemu nanti malam sayaanngg! :-*
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1st day

1st day went smooth. We managed to wake up @4.30am, I cleaned his shoes (homework: buy shoe-polish after work, don't forget!), prepare his work attire, and finished shower @5.15, bring breakfast, this time I ordered indomie goreng + eggs to our assistant (tomorrow, I'll do it myself), arrived at his office @6.15am.

Wowww!! That's a record or what?! Hahaha.. LUCKILY, we're in the same region of workplace, he told me to drop him off. Before that, we had breakfast together first :-)

I can tell you, it was all worth it! After all these times we're living in a different city.

All is good in HIS time. Thank YOU, JC! :-)

Love,
ASM+BMP
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G'bye LDR!!

Today..

We beat LDR!!

Woohhoooo!! Good bye LDR, we don't wanna see u again :D

I'm a mother

Gwe punya konsep kalo jd ibu. Belom, belom hamil.. (Doain aja ;-) )

Kadang2 kita jd orang tua suka salah, kita pikir dgn kita beri anak kita mainan mahal, baju2 mahal, skolah di tempat yg mahal, itu udh cukup banget utk anak kita. NOPE!! Salah besar :)

Gwe emang bukan pakar, bukan psikolog, bukan juga guru, bahkan belum jg mjd ibu, tapi yaa.. Sdikit banyak gwe berperan besar dlm hal mendidik adek gwe. Kenapa gitu? Yaa.. Krn dari dulu emang kita selalu berdua.

Okay, let me tell u a wee bit of my story

Orang tua cerai, bkn berarti anak jd rusak dong? Papa sibuk bekerja (/jarang di rmh) bkn berarti jd justifikasi kita utk jd anak kurang ajar dan ugal2an kan? Oh yeah, I can say, adek gwe dan gwe jadi anak yang tidak mengecewakan orang tua. Lumayan berhasil gwe didik adek gwe jg anak yg baik.

Jadi apa kunci supaya anak kita jadi anak yg baik dan sesuai dgn harapan orang tua?

Jawabannya: DISIPLIN

Gwe ga bilang ttg kita harus menyayangi anak kita. I mean, who doesn't? Justru kalo kita sayang anak kita, ya harus diterapin disiplin sejak dini.

Kalo dulu ngedumel krn bapak emak gwe bawelnya minta ampyun, apalagi bapakku yg terlalu strict, tp mrk jg seimbang, kami2 anaknya selalu diarahkan, diajak ngobrol, digugah logikanya. Plus: DISIPLIN.

Nah hal2 yg ditanamin sm orang tua gwe, jadi berlanjut smp skr ini. Asli, kalo liat anak2 kecil ga ada aturan, bandel, liar, pdhal papamamanya well educated, aku pusing kepala lah. Bkn gwe blg yg less educated ga bisa pny anak yg baik lho ya.. Tp itu td contoh aja.

Aku kurang sepaham kalau orang tua hanya beli barang utk anaknya for the sake of 'gengsi', bkn krn gunanya, bkn krn butuh. Hehehe.. Oh well, kalo itu bisa jadi pembahasan masalah laen deh ya..

Intinya, ga perlu tereak2 ke dunia luar, kalo lo sayang bgt sm anak lo, smp manja2in anak lo sgala macem, smp kita smua tau. Yep, ndak perlu :-)

Didik anak ya jgn sayang2 monyet. Utk mencapai kedisiplinan pd anak ya dari hal2 kecil aja. Misalnya: makan pada waktunya, sesuai porsinya, sesuai dengan jenis mknan apa yg hrs dimakan. :) artinya ya kalo jam 12 siang dia harus makan nasi+lauk, jgn dikasi cemilan. Semua tergantung metode kita deh. Trus kalo makan jgn lari2 ksana sini, makan ya harus duduk, dia ga mau makan? Paksa! Waktunya maen ya maen, waktunya makan ya makan. Ga boleh liar.

Nah, dari hal2 kecil spt itu, percaya deh anak kamu bisa jadi anak yg baik. Ya tentunya selain hal2 lain ya.. :-) *kpanjangan nanti* hehehe

Courtesy

Approved!! FINALLY!!

Posting lanjutan dr yg di bawah ini nih..

Jadi ceritanya kan bgini, aku sama si abang pacaran yaa kira2 8 tahun, nah selama 8 tahun itu kita berdua long distance ya bok.. :) pastinya ga gampang,
tapi kita (bisa dibilang) berhasil udah ngelewatin itu semua dengan setia slalu, sampai pada akhirnya kita menikah skr ini.

Nikah bulan November 2008, masih juga kita jalanin long distance, ceritanya begimana aja? yaa.. hanya org terdekat deh ya yg tau cerita cinta kami itu.

Usaha sana-sini, supaya bisa hidup normal berumahtangga, bisa bobok bareng setiap hari, bisa ngeliat mukanya setiap hari itu udh kaya apa ya? impian gitu?

Namun akhirnya, USAHA kita berhasil!!!!!

Abang bakal PINDAH secepatnyaaaa!!

Sore2 si abang nilpun:
B: Ma, udh baca email tak?
A: Belum pa, ada apaan? aku lg di masjid *akad nikah temen kantor, jadi belom liat hp na
B: Oh gitu... ya ada email ma, ttg kepindahanku?
A: Haaa (bntar bntar, aku ga denger nih bolot + agak denger tp ga percaya!) *sambil keluar dr masjid*
B: Iya ma, jd mutasiku udh diapprove!!
A: *speechless* OMG!! (udh pengen triak tp ga bisa bok), Puji Tuhan ya sayang... astaga, ini berita baik bgt, selamat ya sayang, untuk kita berdua

he's soooo moving to town!!!!

and we're very thankful, God is always good to us, with HIS never ending blessings. Thank YOU, FATHER. We love YOU sooooooooo much!

CAN'T WAIT!!

HAPPY!!!!!!

One of our dreams has achieved! FINALLY!! Thank u Lord. :)

Xoxo,
Astried+Benget
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Akhir pekan yg panjang

Hehe.. Aneh yak dibahasaindonesiakan??
Mau cerita long weekend kmrn..

Jumat pagi
Sampe dgn selamat di Medan, dijemput suamiku yg ijin bentar dr kantor. Lsg menuju rumah :) ktemu ponakan2ku yg ampyuuunn lucu2 bgt!!
Makan siang, trus lsg cabut ke rumah sakit, our dearest Hanna diopname udh hampir seminggu krn usus buntu, kasian bgt Shirley Temple kita itu, funny thing is.. Dia stres ga bs masuk skolah!! Hahaha.. Such a geeky girl!! Hohoho.. Smp tulangnya (my husband), blg: ya gpp Nana sayang, kalo semester ini jd ranking 5 kan gpp, nt jg bs ranking 1 lg, tp dasar anaknya cool, dia cuma senyum aja. Fyi, dia ga pernah ga ranking 1!! dari pertama masuk skolah smp naek kelas ke kelas 3 SMP kmrn. Sempet khawatir sih kita dia kok ambisius skali, smp mamapapanya blg kalo it's okay kalo ga ranking. Hahaha. Yaahh mau gimana, diajak ke mall aja dia ga betah, maunya belajar. Luckily, iparku les2in dia kesenian, dsb jd yaa..mudah2an seimbang deh.
Dari rumah sakit kita pergi makan di Selat Panjang, aku makan bak kut teh, si gendot mkn mie pangsit. Sempet diomelin krn takut flu babi, tp tak apa ahh.. Hajar maniiinngg!!

Anyway, sorenya pulang ke rumah, leyeh2, trus ngobroolll sm The Panjaitans, rame bgt :)

Sabtu, bangun pagi skali, siapin sarapan utk Mr. Panjaruman.. (*Panjaitan), dia hrs ke kantor bok! Ya sdhlah ik pergi belanja ke pasar ajah, hehehe naek becak motor!! Sm kk ipar b2, belanja smp kalap, smp2 edaku pusyong, aku senanglah blnja di pasar, seger2 bgt!!
Pulang, masak, menanti mantan pacar yg ktnya mau makan siang @rmh, ya bok.. Stp gwe dtg ke medan ya laki aye bs d makan siang di rmh, boro2 d bgitu kalo disini? Then, we decided to go to the movies! Watch Harpot, tp krn suamiku yg gendut itu emang sbnrnya lagi sakit, jd tidur dulu deh, baru ke bioskop. Brangkat d tuh ya pas maghrib, smp di Sun Plaza, weks?! Abis tiketnya buuu!! Hahaha.. Tak apo2lah, kita ntn besok aja (Minggu) jam 12 :)

Ternyataaa.. Hari Minggu kita b2 bangun jam 11!! Wekwek.. Jadi aja gradakgruduk!! Mana rumah sepi amat?? Smuanya udh pd ke gereja.. Hahhahaa.. Ya begimana yak, laki gwe insomnia tingkat tinggi, nemenin dia bgadang smbl berantem semaleman bikin jd kebo deh.. Hahaha
Lsg tuh ya ke Sun Plaza lagee, udh telat stengah jam, mijn liefde klaperan!! Haahh.. Pdhl td sempet2nya bikinin nasgor lhoo!! Ahhaahaha.. Pantesan gendoott!! ya udh deh beli hotdog aja di bioskop. We don't like popcorn!! cuma bikin nyangkut2 di gigi ajaaa!! :D

Filmnya gimana? Nggantung, Kentang!! Sebal kami, tp ya HarPot gitu.. Udh ngikutin dr awal ya hrs ditonton trus ajah, pnasaran visualnya. xixixixixi..

Abis nonton kliling2 smp capeee.. Biasa d ada yg nyari spatu (spatuuuu mulu!!), kepengen bgt makan sate ayam disamping Medan Plaza bok! Ngaahh.. Kita pnah makan disitu 5 thn lalu gitu? Bingung bingung nyariinnya, kayanya udh ga ada tempatnya deh, ya udh deh ke tukang sate langganan aja. Trus ke lamaran temen kantor si Dia, hehe.. Aku senang kumpul2 sm temen2 suamiku.. :)

Lho kok jd ga ke gereja?? Iyaaa.. Soalnya dr makan sate keluarga pd ngumpuuulll.. Simangunsong+Panjaitan bersaudara :P

Senin malem, pulang deh ke Jakarta.. HaHahahahahaa... *bokek berat*

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Snapshot of d day

This is my current fave snapshot for my bbb, with dugong as d background. I just love dugong!!

Xoxo
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Mesmerized

My husband never failed to mesmerized me. The way he treating me, the way he kissed my eyes after all the bad things happened to us.

Though he revealed his secret box to me until we were fighting til 4am dat nite, I choose to not extend it into further 'discussion'.

I choose to quit. Quit debating, just stop.

The more important thing is, he's mine. Not yours, but mine :)

Jangan nakal sayang, I love u even more and more each day.
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Highlight of the month

Emang ga pernah tau yah adaaa aja masalah idup
mudah2an aja ga akan ada masalah2 selanjutnya :) lagi stres trus akhir2 ini, makanya jd ga sempet2 update2 blog deh.. hehehe, tapi kalo twitter, update terus dong ahh... :D

Highlight of the month:

1. Kami sedang menanti kabar baik :) mudah2an yaa
2. 2 minggu lalu sempet laris manis tanjung kimpul, tapi masih status quo deh ahh
3. lagi mikirin gimana caranya dapat yg lebih baik. amin (*ditambah si single white female mengganggu aja kerjanya*)
4. pertama kalinya papsmear, haahaha... paraahhh paniknya, malu abis deh ahh... tapi lancar kok, mudah2an sehat2 aja, bagus hasilnya gituu..
5. Pemilu, gedeg denger berita2 kecurangan dimana2, ah tapi ya sudahlah, pasrah ajaahhh (mudah2an jg Indonesia kita tdk smakin terpuruk. amin)
   

yak sgitu aja dulu.. nanti crita2 lagi deh, live from Medan! Long weekend, can't wait to see you!!

Scruff

There's something about my husband's scent scruff. I can smell it until I fall asleep. Hehe..

Uhh, missing it sooo much! Missing him the most :(
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Ngaca

Kadang hidup emang penuh cobaan (tantangan ato rintangan?). Kadang kita merasa udah ga tau lagi harus gimana. Kadang merasa kok Tuhan ga adil?

Tapi ga bisa begitu juga. Ga boleh mempertanyakan kuasa-Nya.

Udah tau.

Udah tau kalo emang harus sabar, harus berdoa, harus usaha.

Cuma kenapa jawaban tak kunjung datang? Kenapa?

Jadi, hari ini hari 'mengaca' buat gwe dan suami.

Susah emang assess diri sendiri, tapi demi kebaikan? Walaupun mungkin akan menambah daftar stres? Ya ga apa-apa, dengan begitu, seharusnya bisa jadi orang yang lebih baik. Toh, memang utk diri sendiri.

Semoga keadaan membaik dan kami bisa lebih bersyukur :)
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Depression

I'm too depressed rite now. I feel like hell.

Okay, now I've lost my appetite to write.

Ps: nunggu hari baik deh :( entah kapan
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Krisis Identitas orang Jakarta (ato org Indonesia?)

Postingan gwe kali ini bukan untuk mencibir atau ngata2in orang yaa.. Belom apa2 gwe udh bikin disclaimer :p
Tapi beneran, kalo ada yg tersungging karena postinganku, yaaa.. Maybe u're one of them :D

Akhir2 ini gwe agak pusing ngeliat gaya orang Jakarta, semakin hari semakin pera' semakin ngganggu

Yaaa.. Byk lah temen2 gwe juga yg bergaya bak dia turunannya Hilton, etc.

Selaen ada kasus seseorang yg baru aja ambil master di New Jersey 2-3 thn ini, dia mengklaim dirinya tdk lagi bisa berbahasa Indonesia.. Come on girl? R U kidding me? Begitu ciamiknya bahasa kita, udah gitu setau gwe orang kalo kena amnesia aja ga bakalan lupa sama bahasa ibu? Gimana cara lo bisa lupa coba? Mungkin cincha lauwrah merasukimu?

Ada lagi, sesosok cewe pacaran sm bulelebo, tiba2 dia ga mau makan daging lokal, blanja harus di swalayan bukan maen, nongkrong harus di tempat yg bukan maen juga, belom peralatan lenongnya, baju2 yang pastinya harus branded punyak (kalo kata dia sih), tas, sepatu dsb dsb..

Tapi yaaa.. Kebanyakan masih disusuin ayahbundanya tuh.. Kaga punya penghasilan sendiri, tagihan kartu kredit sama dengan gaji orang yang udh kerja 5 taon.

Fenomena apakah ini? Ada apa dengan hidup normal? Apa karena serangan serial2 pelem? Bergaya bak anak manhattan? Tapi itu kan cuma film.. Lagipula socialite2 itu ga perlu kerja juga uangnya beranak pinak sendiri. Lah ini apa kabar kalo kalian tdklah sekaya itu, menganut paham biar kere asal gaya?

Pusing pusing.. Kenapa gwe pusing yak? Toh bukan anak gwe juga.. Hahahaha..
Btw, kasian lho papa ato mama kamu jadi (mungkin) harus korupsi deh tuuhh..

Tapi emang bikin eneg sih kelakuannya.. Yeahh.. Gwe doain cepetan bertobat, dears.. Life is not about style.. It is not. Mati juga harta ga bs dibawa kemenong2 deh...

Satu lagi, jangan sombong-sombong ah.. Orang sombong biasanya bauk! Wkwkwkwk.. :D

Postingan ini hanya pikiran2 gwe aja ya.. I might be wrong as well.. :)
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Love u nye

I love my brother. I love him so much.

I trust him, I supported him.

Yesterday, he came to me and told me something that hurt him, also me :(

But it's okay, it's very okay. Nobody has to know what kind of situation that we have right now. We keep standing still, be tough, as our parent taught us to.

It breaks my heart if you're in trouble, nye. Don't let anything or anyone ruining ur dreams, ur hardwork, our sacrifices, our parents' hope. Most of all, your own life.

I love u enye, u're not a little boy anymore. Be strong, always pray to our Lord, ata will always be here.

Love,
Ata enye
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Put this in mind

"Success is never certain and failure is never final."!

Today's theme

Bakalan jd banci posting blog lg nih,soalnya udah bisa dr e-mail,akhirnya gwe aktifin juga.. Hehehe..

Ini dia tema hari ini..
Love it!
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Test

Test test.. This shud work.. Hehe
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Vaja Casing

I love this customized casing.. but it's very expensive..

ada harga ada barang ya bok..

from here

If... (u have a problem)

Hari ini kejepit nasional.. nguk..

Kemarin, libur hanging out with the niece and nephews.. :)
mayan seneng deh, walopun cuapee..

lah, hari ini?
aku bukannya ikutan mereka pergi2, ehh.. hrs kerja.. tp ga apa sih, banyak kerjaan juga soalnya.

ehm apalagi ya highlight hari ini?
oh iya.. suamiku dapet rejeki.. hehehe..
God is good ;)

Ya.. walopun masalah itu selalu aja ada ya.. cuma emang hrs ditelen aja deh.. hehehe

Belajar beberapa hal sejak aku menikah, bahwa masalah itu tidak perlu dianggap masalah, tapi dianggap:
1. Ancaman
2. Gangguan
3. Hambatan
4. Tantangan

Nah.. ke-4nya itu haruslah dicari solusinya, do not just sit and cry, it won't solve anything.
Apalagi, udah umur segini, memang kadang2 harus deal aja sama 4 item diatas itu.. ;) pelan2, nanti bisa ketemu solusinya. amin ya.. :)

Aku udah ga kaya dulu lagi sih, hehe.. kalo dulu, ada masalah dikit bingung, panikan harus gimana.. sharing ke smua orang.. umm.. kalo sekarang sih, yaa udah ada suamiku ya :) yang selalu siap 24/7 ikutan mikirin, nolongin, bahkan gendong aku :)

Ga lupa juga, berdoa sama Bapa diatas sana..

So.. folks, kalau sekarang ada yang lagi punya masalah, mudah2an semua bisa berjalan lancar yaa... inget aja, tidak ada jalan yang mudah untuk mencapai kesuksesan dan kebahagiaan.

(aku doain kalian smua selalu, my faves!)

Tattaa..!

New Template

Yay.. akhirnya ganti template blog yg udh bertaun2 ga gwe ganti2... hihihi

Well, got nothing to tell.. :) Duduuu

BIG Grin :D

Aku sedang SENAANNNGGG!!!

poor car (this time not poor cow)

Jam 12-an, tadi malem.

-bunyi henpon gede bgt-

gwe: *tnyata bokap* aloo paa (msh ngantuk bgt, mata kejap2)
dad: kk susah bgt nelponin kamu sihhh??
gwe: lah kan lg tidur pa?
dad: cepetan kamu kesini, ban mobil papa pecah di radio dalem
gwe: (langsung melek) hahh? sumpah pa??
dad: iya bawa perkakas yg kecil sama yg gede di dlm gudang
gwe: okeh okeh, tp emangnya ada di dalam gudang ya pa?
dad: iya iya.. ada disitu cepetan ya
gwe: okeh, nanti kubawain deh.

cepet2 bangunin si Devy-adek spupu gwe, kepanikan bgt.. huuhuhuhu

-ngoprek2 gudang, teriak2in mbak2ku buat bantuin, ketakutan banyak amat setan di atas... aku streesssss!!!-

gwe: dek kok ga ada2 sih??
dvy: kayanya ada di garasi deh kak
gwe: tp lo dgr kan bokap blg di gudang?
dvy: huuhh.. ayo liat di bawah..

long story short, gwe ga nemu tuh perkakas di gudang, panik bgt nelpon bokap berkali2 ga juga diangkat (gwe parno-an setengah mati orgnya, gwe takut dia dijahatin orang.. hik)

ya udh deh tuh yaa.. ngebuuuuuuuuttttt ke radio dalem, ujan2, jalanan depan komplek grudukan smua, menyebalkan! gwe bisa sampe deh di radio dalem dalam waktu brapa lama sodara2???
10 MENIT sajaaaa!!!

daaannn.. ternyata si ayah udah minta bantuan sama bengkel, dan ternyata yg lebih parah lagi, itu bukan sekedar pecah ban doaanng! tapi kecelakaan..

Jadi, papaku nabrak pembatas jalan yg di radio dalem, ujan deres bgt, jarak pandang ga bisa jauh2 amat, ehhh.. ada mobil silau bgt, ditambah mungkin papa ngantuk kali yaa.. jadi deh dia nabrak pembatas jalan itu, ancur cur cur bagian bawah mobil sebelah kanan dari depaannn sampe belakang :(

ah stres bgt

yg kacaunya, velg mobil bengkok, trus baut velg-nya ga bisa kebuka, akhirnya after a looooongg consideration (sekitar 2 jam :( ), kita mutusin utk ninggalin itu mobil di bengkel, ada toko khusus ban disekitar situ.. errggghh.. aku masih belum tau gmn kabar selanjutnya..

mudah2an no more accident, careful guys sama ujan yg bukan main bikin kalang-kabut akhir2 ini..

darn it

sakit kepala sebelah kiri udh 4 hari kaga ilang2
ke dokter udh 2 kali.. trus hrs ngapain lg dong?
sakit kepalanya kaya migren, bedanya dtgnya tiba2, kaya ditusuk2 selama 3-5 detik doang
ada apa sih sama kepala gwe????

sakit menyebalkan :(

Bencinya kalo lagi sakit, ga bs gerak2, padahal mobilitas tinggi, terbang sana-sini :(

yg bikin kesel lagi, entah mengapa ga sembuh ini penyakit gweeee!!!! batuk2 sampe perut gwe sakit, dahak ga berkesudahan amat, pokoknya menyebalkan..

pengen tidur ahh.. cape sekali wiken ini, eh dr wiken kemaren deng, balikpapan-jakarta-medan-jakarta..

ps: can't wait to use it! :D apa yaa? ada deehhh

Poor Cow :(

Asli.. mungkin yg baca ini bakal mikir, duh ga penting bgt postingannya deh ahh..

Tadi tuw, aku kejebak macet di jalan tol, as always... ehem..
Jadi, di depan gwe ada segerombolan sapi, di dalam bak truk yg gedeeee bgt
asli banyak bgt deh sapi2nya

nah, ada 1 sapi, ngeliatin gweeee terus *ya mungkin karena emang empet2an sih
tapi asli deh, gwe ga bisa ga ngeliatin tuh sapi, mana sapinya ganteng bgt
terus.. matanya itu lho..
sayu, trus memelas... huhhuhuhuhu
and u know what? nangis aja lho gwe...

aku lg kenapa sih ya?
tp beneran, bikin gwe mikir,

apa gwe berhenti aja makan daging sapi? ato skalian aja stop makan semua binatang yg punya mata? :'(
kasian bgt asliiiii....

huhuhu... pengen peluk sapinya.. :((

<3

Just can't live without him :)

me and my wonderful one

me and big baby

Sekali lagi..

Dipisahkan jarak... hiks hiks..

tapi tak apa, sampai bertemu secepatnya sayaannnggg!!

Blah

I honestly think Jamiroquai is not that good.

Their album is so old story (back in highschool) and the concert is so overrated.

Oldies Stupid Gossip

Lagi ga produktif di kantor, secara lagi ngambek *critanya

Gwe nulis2 aja deehhh

Gini, masa' ya, gwe kan di-tag tuh bok sama teman semasa SD, wah seneng deh, secara aku ga malu deh ah sama masa lalu :) I cherished it. Ditambah, lebih cakepan dulu gwe kecil deh bok.. HKAHKAHKAHKAA.

Okay..

Then, I bumped into those comments under the 'it' photo, there is this particular comment, nyebutin kalo akika TERNYATA dulu digosipin sama Guru Kesenian gwe!!! WTH??

Bookkkkk... Please deh bokkk, that's truly not a good thing to say in the public, i mean, we barely meet (eh ini gwe mo ngomong nginggris apa gmn yak? ahahaha) ya udh deh bahasa indonesia saja, apa tadi? Oh... iya bok, ga bagus gitu lho ngomong2 njeplak bgitu, asli deh.. gini gini.. gwe ga pernah ktemu sama lo, trus itu adalah konsumsi publik. umum. semua orang jaman dulu punyak, kaya bangkit dari kubur, trus tiba2 gwe diingatnya sebagai anak-yang-dahulu-punya-affair-sama-Pak Guru Kesenian??

Cape deh.

Gwe inget tuh kenapa gwe sampe digosipin begitu, jadi ceritanya tuh dulu suara ik bagus punyak, hakahkahkahkaha.. kaga, kaga, ini beneran.. jadi bapak itulah yang melatih suaraku :) Paduan Suara, Nyanyi lomba2 gitu.. dan EMAK gwe selalu pantau ya bok, kemana pun gwe pergi emak gwe selalu ada. Gwe GA PERNAH sama sekali trima pelecehan atau apa dari si bapak itu. Purely, dia pengen supaya bakat gwe terasah. That's it!

Sampe-sampe beliau pernah minta ijin sama bapakku, supaya aku mau rekaman di Musica. Ehhh.. ini ga boong cong! seriusan ini.. tapi dasar bapakku itu orangnya selalu mementingkan pendidikan, yang penting buat bapakku, sekolah, sekolah dan sekolah. Dilarang jadi Artis! weekkk....

Jadi gitu ya bok, kasihanilah aku. Udah mana lagi bete', eh baca2 begituan, walaupun aku menanggapinya hanya dengan tertawa terbahak-bahak saja.

*gwe tulis komen gwe dgn ktawa2. bilang kalo itu gosip murahan, eh si penulis komen cuma bilang: Mungkin Pak ***** itu Pedofil. Capeeeee!!! HUH!!

Nyerobot ajeehhh!

Kali ini mau misuh-misuh lagi.
tp bukan buat cari musuh lho!

Gini, kenapa yak ada orang yg suka-nya nyerobot ide orang?
kenapa coba?
heran deh gwe, mbok ya pake dong genuine ide lo sendiri. Kenapa juga mesti nyomot2 ide orang?

ah.. dunia.. duniaku.. sedang gila.

Baiklah, enough complaining! kembali bekerjaaaaaa.... :(

I hate this company.

S.O.S

How do you handle a disappointment?

I handled it by holding my tongue today, take a cool mimic, act nothing happened.

I won't spoil the details here, I just can't. The most important issue here is, this is not the end of the world, this is just getting started :(

I tried very hard this one year, and it turned out, all of them discouraged me. Maybe they just want to squeeze my capability, my source, all that I've got.

Here I am now, with my sad face, full of regret, and trying to pull out myself from this one hell of a place. no no no this is not me being exaggerated. this is me, with honesty. Trying not to be disgraceful.

So, help me God :)

hasil observasi

aku ga suka sama orang:

1. memuji supaya dia dipuji
2. merendah supaya dia ditinggikan
3. pamer materialistik; dan
4. sok stylish

sepertinya list-nya akan terus bertambah.

Imogen Heaps

I've always a thing with Frou-Frou :)

I could listen to their songs back and forth.. in my way to office and back from it.

here it is:





Imogen Heap, I'm one of your fans :) muah muah!

pusinggg

lg pusing gara2 tanggul situgintung jebol.
pulang lewat manaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa?

Talk. Act. Act. Talk.

Yesterday, I stumbled upon this girl. She is really a wacko, if I might say, saying everything in her mind, directly, with no feelings or what ever.

She umm.. is harsh one. Even if she thinks she's right, she better not to say things that rude. Yeah.. maybe she's trying to be me. Ha!

Is this the same copy cat that I talked about? ahaahh.. yep!

I dunno how to say this to you girl, but please put this in your head. We ARE NOT the SAME. Not at all.

I might seem mean in some cases, but it's only because I want to say the truth. No pretending issues, no mask, nothing.

But still, I still have my soft feeling. Well, I do. If I cared about you, I'll always think about your feeling. I have this capability of being emphatic u know..

Hypothetically, I could kill someone with my words if I open my mouth.

My advice? you should think before you talk, plus you should act before you talk. Think before you act.

Ciao bella!

Happy Birthday, dear Husband :)

I love you because you understand dear
Every single thing I try to do
You're always there to lend a helping hand dear
I love you most of all because you're you

No matter what the world may say about me
I know your love will always see me through
I love you for the way you never doubt me
But most of all I love you ‘cause you're you

I love you ... because my heart is lighter
Every time I'm walking by your side
I love you because the future's brighter
The door to happiness you opened wide

No matter what the world may say about me
I know your love will always see me through
I love you for a hundred thousand reasons
But most of all I love you ‘cause you're you

here is, the bloody answer..

*“Kalo nanya kapan punya anak gue gak tau, tapi… kalo kapan buat anak gue tau bgt.”

sumpah ga sengaja dpt ini, dari sejak gwe sm laki gwe kawin, bawaannya kesel aja ditanya2in mulu, kapan hamil? udh isi? bukan bitter, tp please dong, mbok ya nanya yg laen, spt: hey, gimana cid, bahagia ya merit?? apa kabarnya suami? apa kek pertanyaan laen... u know, that question u asked, it's a sensitive question, cos it's too personal... jd drpd gwe jawab panjang2 bgini, jawaban diatas udh representatif bgt? enak kaga? hakhakhkahka.. :)) LOL


*quoted from: http://www.lajangdanmenikah.com/

gerrr

kepala gwe mau meledak
cape bgt meeting melulu.. amit2 sumpah amit2

Thank You, Father..

This year has just begun..
We had some problems, obstacles
Though it hasn't solved yet, but we managed to survive.
Hopefully by God's involvement, we could move on, stand still, together.

Today, I'd like to say..
PRAISE THE LORD

I knew... I knew you'll always guard us.
Thank you, Father :)
Thank you for the health of my husband, thank you for the gift of happiness you send to my best friend.

kangen banget!

sama GRONINGEN!!!


summer bikin item

kayanya aku hrs beli sepeda deehhh.... hahahaha... *ga nyambung!

Nul, sumpeh deh.. kangen bener!!! kapan kita ksana lagii? tp ga utk kuliah yaaa.. hahahahhaha

mulai ga penting

Tau ga sih perasaan kalo orang lagi males?
seneup sama keadaan sekitar, tp juga ga berbuat apa2
bego kan?
nah lagi begitulah kira2 yg kurasakan.

ga bener sih sebenernya kaya bgitu
gwe tau gwe harus bergerak
tp entah kenapa lagi menikmati perasaan tersiksa batin ini.
aneh kan? iya emang aneh..

tp biasanya gwe slalu set-up my goals kok.
mudah2an aja yaaaa... amiinnn

whilst,
kehidupan percintaanku lagi berbunga2 (krn pengantin baru? mungkin, tp mudah2an begini terus), makanya jadi lama bener nih ga aktif di blog, malas aja gituuhhh
hehehehe
ga terlalu byk yg mau gwe share ke public ah... walopun ini blog ga ada yg baca, tapi teteup kan open air... hihihihi

males aja nyeritain hal2 penting, eh kaya penting aja yak ini tulisanku? :D

apa yaa... cuma mau nyampah aja sbenernya disini.. banyak hal2 bergelayutan di pikiranku skr ini, ttg karir, this LD, my life, my family matters, banyak deehhh...
saking banyaknya udh mblenger duluan mo curhat disini.. (jd mau lo apa sih cid?)

ah... mungkin lebih baik aku makan saja.... hahahhahahahaha

I could if I would

the thing is.

I valued my friendship

really.

But if someone totally regret you, and you're really really disappointed? what would u do?

I could do everything!

that only happened if I would.

in real life, i wouldn't.

so all i want to do is, i wish u all the good luck, hopefully all of this is worthed someday, maybe we need to learn a lot from this thing. why it happened? why this.. why that..

we will figure it out. someday. but not now, not in the sooner time.

i understand. u have ur own priority aite? back again, i truly hope it's all worthed :)

i pray all the good things for you, my friend. from my heart.

Bye.

iseng di kantor

hari ini iseng bgt di kantor, males kerja, dingin ampun2an... nguk nguk..
jd poto2 aja deh.. hiihihii

eh udh lama ya gwe ga crita2? apa yaaa...

umm.. badan lg encok2, lg dapet, trus flu, kecapean gr2 kmrn 4 hari ke KL, yg anehnya gwe males poto2 disana, krn emang bkn buat liburan, lgpula ah bosan.. hhahahaa... so i visited my one and only brother, i'm wishing all the best for him. amen.

17th

bad news. we failed on the project

me me me

I'm thinking that I have a competency more than what I'm doing rite now.
enough said.