diet gol darah

GOLONGAN DARAH A (me)

Golongan darah A merupakan manusia pertama yang menjalankan aktifitas pertanian karena nenek moyang sudah tinggal menetap dan tidak lagi suka berperang.

Tingkah Laku : Bertanggung jawab & romantis

Masalah yang dihadapi : Hilang kesabaran diri atau cepat marah, rembesan sebum berlebihan, penyakit jantung dan masalah saluran darah, kanker dan ulser, gaster, kegemukkan.

Diet : Makanan berkarbohidrat tinggi & kurangi lemak

Sangat Bermanfaat (makanan yang beraksi sebagai obat)
Bayam, brokoli, wortel, jamur ikan mas, kacang tanah, kacang buncis, kacang/ susu kedelai, tahu, tempe, tepung beras, bluberi, minyak zaitun, ikan mas, ikan sardine, (Siput, jus nanas, mangga, pisang, jeruk limau & sitrun).

Netral (makanan yang beraksi sebagai makanan)
Ikan tuna, telur ayam & bebek, telur puyuh, biji wijen, biji bunga matahari, kacang ercis / kapri, jagung, tapioka, roti gandum, labu, bawang merah, mentimun, talas, anggur (semua jenis), melon, blewah, pir, delima, kiwi, kurma, strowberi, kesemek, jambu biji, Daging (ayam, burung unta, belibis kalkun,burung dara)

Hindari (makanan yang beraksi sebagai racun)
Daging (sapi, kerbau, domba, bebek, angsa, kelinci, ayam hutan), lobster, gurita, kepiting, belut, kodok, udang, cumi- cumi, mentega, susu sapi, keju, es krim, susu, murni, acar, terung, tomat, ubi, kentang, jeruk, kelapa/ santan, melon madu, pisang (raja), pepaya, pare, air soda.

GOLONGAN DARAH B (him)

Kunci golongan darah B adalah keseimbangan. Orang bergolongan darah B tumbuh dan berkembang baik melalui apa yang telah disediakan oleh dunia hewan dan tumbuhan. Artinya golongan darah B menunjukan kemampuan yang canggih dalam perjalanan evolusinya.

Tingkah Laku : Adaptasi & analitika

Masalah yang dihadapi : Kerusakan system syaraf, kesulitan untuk tidur berkualitas, sakit kepala dan migren, penyakit hati dan saluran empedu, masalah haid, sakit tulang belakang, kegemukkan, penyakit jantung.

Diet : Susu & produk susu

Sangat Bermanfaat (makanan yang beraksi sebagai obat)
Ikan laut, susu sapi, keju, buburgandum, roti essene, kue beras, brokoli, ubi, wortel, kembang kol, terung, teh hijau, Daging (kambing, domba, kelinci, rusa)

Netral (makanan yang beraksi sebagai makanan)
Cumi-cumi, ikan mas, ikan tuna, mentega, keju, telur ayam, kacang merah, kacang buncis, tepung beras, roti beras, bayam, brokoli, selada, mentimun, labu, kentang, sawi, mangga, melon, jeruk, pir, kurma, jambu biji, Daging (sapi, kerbau, kalkun, hati anak sapi)

Hindari (makanan yang beraksi sebagai racun)
Daging (bebek, ayam, angsa, belibis, babi, kuda, keong, kepiting, siput, belut, kodok, gurita, lobster, es krim, telur (bebek, angsa, puyuh), kacang tanah,roti gandum,tomat, waluh, jagung, avokad, pare, delima, kelapa/ santan, kesemek, belimbing, pir, air soda, minuman beralkohol.

taken from here

today's date

We're gonna have a date today..
but it's not gonna be a normal one, because we have to go to the bengkel first.. heuheuheuhue...
still.. lovely! :)

Stupidity in Sudirman

Situation:
Driving around Jakarta, heading to our restaurant, with him and my baby brother

He received a several calls from unrecognized number.

Him: Helloooo...
Man: Hello, am a police man, can u come to my office?
Him: Oh.. but can u tell me ur name?
Man: No no no.. I just wanna make sure that u're the one am looking for
Him: Oh okay.. bye
*click

He hung up the phone

So I asked who is it?

He said, Idk ma. It's just maybe somebody I know of, and I got this feeling that it's Zul.. (*his best friend)

My baby brother added, okay.. if he calls again, u shud try to offer him nasi goreng
ahhahahahhaa

we LAUGHED. HARD.

his phone ringing

HIM: Hellooo... who's this?
Man: Man, how r u?
HIM: Okay, do u want nasi goreng? or capcay perhaps?
Man: *laughing*
HIM: So u don't like our food? okay then. bye. (he shut the phone off)

HAHAHAHAHHAHAA...

ISEEENNGGG!!!

and ringing again.

HIM: Hallooo.. kantor POLDA..
hauhauhauhuahuaa
Man: Okay okay.. i give up, this is Zul..

Yeah sayang, u got him right.. hahaha.. don't play with us. :P

now I'm here with my lowbat laptop, watching him and my dad playing billiar.. hehehe... what a view
oh and btw, he lost Rp. 20,000 already.. geez

Holyday

Christmas 2008 by Astried

-Astried & Benget-

Seriously

It's just no way..

no way u're cooler than me

Seriously.

Maunya..

"astried, kalau saya maunya kamu pergi duluan, nanti yg laen menyusul.."

nyaah.. kalo si babeh udh bilang begini mah, masa gwe tolak ya kan?
ga mungkin dong Paa.. gimana atuh?
emang aku tau papa stroke aku pergi ke jobsite, tp what can I do.. ini resiko kerja disini.

Gpp kok baby, I'll be okay, cuma seminggu aja kok sayang.. nanti aku pulang bawa oleh2 tikar yaaa.. lho kok tikar? hauahuhauhaa...


note: hari ini mami datang, senangnya hatiku senangnya hatikuuu :D

secret recipe

I'm so thrilled!!!

my sister just gave me her 'secret recipe'
hiihi

recipe here means literally recipe yaa...

we love food

and we love cooking..


ps: wait for my recipe ya beb

CHANGE

here's the thing

(eh btw, gwe lg produktif nulis nih..)

apa tadi??

oh iyaa..

here's the thing, akhir2 ini, sejak gwe menyiapkan pesta pernikahan, sampe ketika ada acara setelah pernikahan, yaa.. sampai detik ini.. gwe menyadari 1 hal, kalo:

PEOPLE CHANGE.

yup.

gimana ya? i know this is going to be a bitter story. tp gwe emang lg bitter sama orang2 di sekelilingku.

yeaaa.... intinya, kalo emang mereka tidak peduli sama gwe, untuk apa gwe segitu pedulinya yaa.
Gwe rasa gwe udah cukup bersabar, krn gejala2 ini sebenarnya sudah muncul dari 3 tahun lalu, pas gwe mau berangkat merantau ke negeri tulip.

Umm.. kepikiran aja, kok bisa ya mereka bgitu ke gwe?

Bukannya gwe mau itung2 kebaikan gwe ke orang. tapi sepertinya aku sudah cukup banyak menyebarkan kasih ke setiap pertemanan. I mean, I'm total inside and out for my friends.
Trus ketika sekarang sudah semakin tua, semakin banyak tahu segala hal, kenapa lama2 pertemanan itu terkikis?

Apa gwe aja yang baru sadar kalau,

mereka cuma TEMAN KETAWA?

kayanya begitu.

bukan kayanya lagi, tapi EMANG.

*sighs

asli gwe nulis ini menghela napas berkali2.

gimana ya bok, sakit hati aja gitu... even in your top moment in your life, yg ada cuma sms??
hehehehe..

yaaa... boro2 ngarepin yg laen semacam kado?

sms.

that's it.
ga lebih ga kurang.

so buat apa gwe heboh2 ngurusin orang2 itu selama ini? kecewa? iya. marah? udah ga bisa marah lagi ini.

pada akhirnya bener2, lo bakal tau mana yang emang your truly friend.

dulu emang mungkin banyak temen, asli banyak.

namun yg gwe kira temen juga banyak.
yup.
gwe kira mereka teman.

*sighs

ya sudahlah, i just have to deal with it.

tapi yaaa... sekarang nih, kalo aku nampak tidak peduli sama kalian, maafkan ya.

this is me. changing my point of view. redefining what friend is really mean.

and that would make me, CHANGE.

so, i'm not gonna be around anymore. sorry.

Bandung, here we come!!

I managed to find a hotel for my family during high season in Bandung!

Ahhh.. can't wait to spend our quality time together

pictures are coming soon!!!

Heeelllllooooo

Long weekend!!

I can't wait to be sleeping this whole weekend :) ;)

after all the hectic

for 7 months??

phew!

I Left my heart in Medan

Changing plan!! from what I wrote before this post.

FORTUNATELY on Monday my boss sent me to Medan to do duty.. what a coincidence!! I was craving for Mr. Panjaitan that day and the days before (also now :p ), and God really really heard my sorrow.

Bang! I went to Medan on Monday, and just got back now.. It was a thrill!! cause u know being a newly wed and then we're not living together (yet!).. Bener2 rejeki penganten baru :)

So, I left my heart in Medan... We'll be seeing each other next month, hopefully our 'project' will be succeed.. hihihihi..

Take care B, I love you.

Lil bit of this and that :D

I'll be working full this week, and since my beloved office is not allowing anybody to play (browsing.. facebooking) anymore, so, neither do I.

How pity *sigh

Oh... I'll be heading to Lido next Saturday!! Hopefully nothing bad happens there.

I'm still sick right now, I don't know how to cure this, I've tried like 2 doctors!!! and nothing's good for my body, I guess I just have to not think too hard, and it means I don't have to work that hard!! hahahaha.. that's a good idea, Astried!! ;)

Okay epribodeh (kaya ada ajaa.. hihi)

That's all..

XOXO

PS: I'm temporarily single... huuuh.. come home soon baby!!!!

Uuhh

Heran deh
kenapa sih gwe sakit ga kelar2?? sebeeeeellll!! :(

Ehh

Eh.. mantan temen gwe itu berani lho menunjukkan afeksinya di dunia maya ini..
hahaha..
aduh kamu tuh yaa... ga pernah belajar ya dari masa lalu..
tp ya mudah2an kamu bahagia deh ya... mudah2an emang itu org adalah 'the one'
kalau ga, kasian kamu udh buang saya sbg sahabat kamu..
iya kamu yg buang saya lhoo... ;)

When 2 Ganks Gathered

To welcome me and my husband as the fresh from the oven newly wed..

This can only happen because they love me!!! hihihihi

Yeesss

WE'RE MARRIED!!!

WOHOOOOOOOOO

ps: wondering kenapa ga dr dulu kawin

hahahahahhaa

4 hari lagi

tick tock tick tock

empat hari lagiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii

ihiiiyy!! :)

Miss Astried

Today is my last birthday as a Miss

No party, no fear :)

I'm really looking forward the days with him.. :)

Happy Birthday to me! :) :)

I just have to curhat to the right person

:(

Doain paket undanganku si 120 kg sampai dengan selamat di Medan

Capenya minta ampun

reserve mo curhat ntar

My Bestfriend's Wedding

Have a happy marriage for Guido and Gadis! :)

God bless the two of you.

Pacaran

Tadi mau nulis apa yaa.. hehehe

Maapkeun soalnya ik punya memory very2 short term
hhahaha

eh tapi eike punya photographic memory lhoooo

tapi bukan itu deng yg mau ik ceritain

Lagi gemeesss bgt sama si kelingku itu, demennya ngerjain gwe mulu

Jadi pernah nih malaaammm bgt gwe nelp dia, lg dalam keadaan ngorok, spt biasa dia itu jarang bgt bisa dibangunin, jadi aja dia ngomong sambil ngigo2 ga jelas gitu.. hahaha.. krn lucu jd gwe ajak ngomong terus, gwe tanya2in terus, ehhh.. tiba2 dia blg gini

B: Siapa ini, iya.. ini siapa?
A: *cekikikan, ah ayaaannng
B: Ini siapa.. tut tut tut...
dimatiin bok telpnya!!

Besoknya gwe ngomel2 kan yaa, tapi dia blg dia ga sadar, ehhh kurang ajuaarrr.. ga sadar kok bisa ga nyadar kalo istrinya telp? hahaha... *gaya2an :p
mudah2an selalu dalam keadaan sadar yaaa :D

Teruuusss
semalem nih, lagi ngobrol2, terus dia ngantuk, aku entah kenapa akhir2 ini kaya pake sabu2 (not that I ever used it yaaa.. hakhakhakhaka), susaah bgt tidur, kayanya ga sabar deh bokkk, jd istri orang!!
gwe maunya ngobroooooll mulu!! trus tiba2 doi mengulangi aja gituh,

B: Siapa nih, siapa??
A: Ahhhhhhh
B: Ini siapa sih
A: Awas ayang ya aku cabutin nih bulu kakinyaaaa!!
B: HAHAHAHAHA
Enak bgt sih ngerjain kamu, abisan ngomong ga abis2 deh, cerewet banget!
A: Bodoin, cerewet2 gini juga lo mau kawinin kan
B: hooh nih terpaksa yaaa..
A: AaAAaAAaaaa....

Awas nanti keling aku putihin kamu punya kulit!!

Weeekkk!!!

Stress Release

this is a tiny piece of an email from my very best friend..

jd gitulah sharing aku cido, aku mempraktekan tips2 di website itu dan menfwd-nya ke kamu hahahahhahahhaha....
1. identify ur stress source
2. after u identified it, give urself a break from it.
3. when giving urself a break, be in distance with all the negativities
4. after u released all the burned outs, pumped ur mood, go back to the problem and face it :)

Thank you beb!! muah!

DISTURBANCE

Geez

Preparing a wedding could make you frustration. I mean it.

This is my own wedding for God sake! and it's 30 more days but I don't think the whole thing is done yet at this very moment.

My Tukang Undangan, please make them on time, I only have a week to go to distribute the whole invitations!! ONE F*cking Week!! Not forget to mention I have to type the names by myself! (I did it last 2 days, and it's not even finished :( ) and the highest point is, my mom asked me to come to my grandma's family arisan, and this is a halalbihalal thing, in that event I have to announce my upcoming wedding and also give them my INVITATIONS, helloooo mooommmm!! U know what I just said right, I dont feel like this whole thing about my freakin undangan is gonna be settled by then.. (this Sunday)

But still, she insists. Oh well :(

Carry on, my other problem that I have to share in this blog of mine, isssss....

MY KEBAYA!! MY (supposed to be) GORGEOUS Kebaya!

Argh!! my tailor just said, no.. actually her assistant, called that the kebaya will be finished at 25!! How could you! and oh she added with a nice way of thought, that she will send the kebaya to my house!! I do not want the kebaya to be sent to my house, i want to wear it as the final result at her house... Does she speak other language or what??

I speak in Indonesia. LOUD and CLEAR

phew!

it's just too much pressure this monday, this bloody monday!! I tell you what.. I can't do my work, I just can't. and this is not because I'm a drama queen, but this is my wedding, so I want everything to be just perfect as I want.

Like I want!

Okay carry on the stress sharing,

My soon to be father in law is just too relax. Yeahh... he is!
So is his SON!!

I'm so mad at my man right now!! at this very moment. Baby, how the hell you still have time for your friends??? really!
You should not hanging out with them this often!! NOT!! but you can not just listen to me right??
you think that I'm crazy ehh?? nooo!!! there's a lot of THINGS that you HAVE to do baby!! you tell your father too, please????

Don't make more mad than this... please not! you can not just said, easy baby don't get stress easily??? how encouraging pa!! I AM STRESS right now!! can you wear the same shoes with me??
If I dont talk to all the vendors here, by myself! They are just too slow!! eeeeerrrrrrrrr........

No offense babe, I love you, this will not change how I feel for you
But you need to make some fast move!!

Okay, I need to calm down when I write this entire writing.. hahahaha...

My emotion just exploded.. Sorry, I think I have to be home asap today, and get some sleep.
Please do not disturb.

Oh NO Boy!

you can not get away that easy

I REPEAT

you CAN NOT ESCAPE and HIDE you moron!

Dear my besties

Lagi banyak sahabat2ku yang bermasalah dengan percintaan

Ga usah dibuka disinilah ya siapa aja, kenapa dsb, yang pasti gwe sedih banget

Emang rencana hidup tidak selalu bisa kita capai, tapi itu ga jadi masalah, karena dengan begitu kita banyak belajar, beneran deh.. sekarang ini mungkin ngerasanya miserable, tapi someday, ketika ada di titik kebahagiaan, trus kilas balik ke masa misery yang skr lagi dirasain ini, pasti kamu bakal thankful atas apapun yang sudah terjadi di hidup kamu.

Percaya aja, Tuhan itu tidak tidur, Dia baiiiikk sekali... :)

Ehmm.. walopun gwe belom kawin, trus gwe belum menempuh perkawinan, ini ada sedikit wejangan dr ayah bundaku, dear sahabat2ku tersayang yang sekarang ini lagi gundahgulana, banyak pertanyaan di dlm kepala, ngerasa dendam sama seseorang yang tdnya spesial, ngerasa kecewa dsb.

"Babe, ga akan kenapa2 dgn hidup kamu, you just have to move forward..."

3 kriteria ini harus dipenuhi, dan urutannya sesuai dengan tingkat prioritasnya yaa..
oh... ini khusus untuk wanita yang sedang mencari pasangannya

1. Bertanggungjawab
Laki2 kalo ga tanggung jawab, yaaa.. bukan laki2... apa aja yg termasuk di dlm ini? ga perlu dideskripsikan, krn tanggung jawab disini sangat besar dan luas artinya.

2. Ulet
Laki2 yg ga ulet mah ke laut aja deh, kalo dia biasa menyepelekan hal ini, ahh.. di-PASS aja deh, kalo tuh laki males dsb... sama aja ga bertanggung jawab (liat poin nomer 1)

3. Pintar
Pintar disini mah bukan melulu artinya pintar akademis, ga slalu menjanjikan kok yang pintar akademis, walaupun yaaa most of the time iya :) pintar disini artinya pintar yang positif deh, asal jangan pintar maenin cewe yaaa...

Mudah2an sahabat2ku survive, tenang aja, ga ada laki juga ga mati kok.. ;)
You all are too precious to be disappointed by stupid man who dont deserve you

Love you all!

Hey you

Hate to say this...

But I'm enough with unimportant people!!

If you don't care about me, I'll be more than you..

make note of that!

Little Me

I was a tengil one.

Still.. :P

ps: I'm wondering where did my chicken legs go?

Unfinished Business

Have u ever experienced one?

Me? yeah..

Though it's all over cos the person is considered a-no-longer-hubby-material.

Really.

I thank GOD for knowing them, they who used to be in the past are the special ones, and I had a bad bad broken heart, learned a lot of lesson, to conquered your broken heart, to have a peaceful mind, to make me a maturer person.

then... Thank GOD.. during the journey.. I met my soon-to-be-hubby..
He's the best. Truly.

in LOVE

with my Wedding Shoes..

Got it at Grand Indonesia last night, after all the stupidity happened in every mall in the city!!

It's not love at the 1st sight, but when I wear it.. I feel pretty :)

uhuy!

My office is in a big deep condolences.

One of my friends had an accident last night, in sungai barito, he can not swim and right now is just too long we heard no news that he's okay.

God, please take good care of him.. where ever he is now

Wedding Update

1. Undangan
Akhirnya undangan gwe naek cetak hari ini, bisa gila dr kemaren ribeeeettt urusin ini, gara2nya tuh gwe nungguin tukang undangan H, dimana gwe naksir sama produk2nya dia bok, tapi entah kenapa sepertinya orangnya ga on-time, udah gitu sempet ada yg mencurigakan, jadi drpd gwe ambil resiko, mendingan gwe cari yang laen
Sampe gwe telpon salah satu sahabat yang akan menikah di bulan depan, dibantulah eike, akhirnya ktemu dengan tukang Undangan Y, dimana H kupecat sebelum berkembang.. heuhuehue
Senengnya sih, undangan gwe, gwe yang kasi ide desainnya, udah gitu belom ada dah yang begitu.. hihihihi.. ga yg aneh2 sih, gwe ga suka yg ribet, pake pita2, pake bunga dsb, yaaa.. yg berkesan menye2 ga ada deh sama sekali.. and ehmm.. gwe ga bikin foto pre-wed sama sekali.. ehhehe, apalagi ditaro di undangan, lame aja menurut gwe sih... jadi no no no, tidak ada itu pose2 aneh bak model majalah terpampang.. hehehe... I'm not a model, nor him.

2. Kebaya Pengantin
Duh duh.. kebaya gwe ini yaaa... ngeri2 sedep juga nih gwe, soalnya sempet deh, sminggu kemaren kok ya ga ada progress amat yak? jadi aja rada mesti dicrewetin deh tuh si Tante Susan, tapi aku jatuh cinta sm kebayaku.. bagus (menurut gwe yeee), udh gitu jahitannya rapi, mudah2an jadi deh ya seperti yang gwe harapkan

3. Kebaya Martumpol
Duuh.. ini nih, gwe kan emang demen ya bok jait di QZM, jadi aja gwe taro disitu... cuman ehmm.. hati2 kalo mau mayet disitu, personally kalo gwe sih ga suka yaa... abisan payetnya bisa ala penyanyi dangdut gitu bok, jadi gwe teteup jait disitu, namun untuk payet2nya ke tante gwe yg emang punya usaha jahit.. hehehe

4. Sendal Pengantin
humm.. kenapa susah bgt nyari sendal ini, ga ada dah yg bener2 kaya bayangan gwe, errrr... udh ke Pasaraya Grande kaga nemu! padahal gwe ngarep bgt lho di Grande, abisan dulu sendal pas gwe prom aja dapet kok bok disitu, padahal warna yg gwe cari bener2 spesifik, dan begonya sendal prom itu cuma gwe pake sekali ajah. hahaha
Doain ya dapet nih sendal manten eike

5. Souvenir
Urrgghh.. susyeh bener nih nyari suvenir.. bisa gila gwe.. untungnya emak gwe dengan baiknya kasi info kalo udh dapet beberapa kandidat di Malang, mudah2an aja dapet yak.. ini udh tanggal berapaaaa.. hiks hiks

6. Jas laki gwe
udh beres res res.. ganteng dah si Keling! :)

7. Sepatu laki gwe
done! sip pokoknya

8. Ulos2
okeh ini gwe beli sabtu besok.. huhuhu

Bahhhh.. rata2 urusan gwe belom finaaaaaaaaaallllllllll!!

Fwd

here is the thing..

I've been so stressed lately and everyone said that's not good for me, for my face blalalalalala
How can't I?
with all deadlines.. garis mati smua!!
huhuhu..
and my baby is far far away about 2,000km from me..
and all my friends are not existed?

So i guess i just have to stand by myself, and continuing all the wheels till the day..

Please please fast forward it... huhuhu

fufufu

So busy with my preparation

and work

and work

and work

ahhh... i need a breaaakkkk!!

Quote of the day

Orang yang berjiwa besar memiliki dua hati, satu hati menangis dan yang satu lagi bersabar (Khalil Gibran)

crisis

When u've got crisis and no one beside you
what would u feel?
me?
i felt SPLENDID

BAGOOOSSS!!!

urgghhh... sabaaaaaaaaaaaarrrrrrrrr

My Kind of Tailor

Today I found a super duper cool designer (and also a tailor)

I came to her house in Tomang, which I don't think most people know this tante..
Cos she doesn't put any ad in front of her house, she just happened to be a good designer among the pejabat2, and also an oldies kind of tailor. Why do i say that? cos her way to make a pattern is an old kind of way.. ehhehe...

I like it, and the most amazing issss...

She measured me while i'm undress... very specific and detail!
like for example, she's superimposed me, if I stretch my hand or not..
things like that amazed me.. hehehe..

and the coolest part is, I get a discount! wekekekekekk...

So gals, you don't have to go to Anne Avantie, I've got a feeling she's very good!!
I just can't wait to see the result of my kebaya and to wear it :) hihihi..

(One) Bad Cop

I have a talent to be one.

The thing is, I don't like to be a munafik person, who said yes when actually One would like to say no.

I say yes if I mean it

I say no, and mean it.

Today, I discovered one of my friends is really acting as a "good" cop, can't blame One, but it makes me thinking, why One would do so?

Maybe, for the sake of to be a good person plus the achievement to be mature person

or maybe...

for other benefits?

Dunno... I tried not to take care about it, but all of the hypothesis keep beaming in my head.

I won't say sorry for telling the truth, when One doesn't speak the truth, you covered and closed the truth, then what is visible is one thing, One is a hypocrite.

If I broaden this thing,
I believe this country needs a non-diplomatic and politically-non-sense kind of thinking, and definitely no hypocrite a la pharisee way of talking..

kalo orang bilang:

"laen di hati laen di bibir"

:) :) :)

after all the hard works

after all the back pain

after everything...

My boss give me TWO thumbs up, from across the desk in the BOD Meeting Room..

hihihihi.. cenangnyahh..

Welcoming

Samuel .... Panjaitan

We've been waiting for you for 10 years..

Welcome aboard captain! hehehe

Can't wait to see you, ndut (cos he's born 4,5kilos, 53 cm)

update:
this is him, the cute and certainly brings a bundle of joy

the proud mommy

lucu bgt yaaaaaa........
i finally got the chance to see him.. it's truly 10 year worth waiting

Will I?

Cry at my wedding?

We'll see (in about 3 more months) ihiiiyy..


answer: i guess so

triple 8

Ada yg bilang kalo mau kawin, pasti dikasi rejeki sama yg punya hidup

Now I believe it


Heee... seneng :P

Soerabaja

I'm writing this from Surabaya, in the hotel's business centre, it costs $6 for 30 minutes only??
Holy Land!

gile aja kan?
hahaha.. kalo ga dibayarin kantor ogeng deh gweee

oh yaa...
I had fun with my mommy!
hihihi
catch u later on!

State of Mind

Buset deh gwe baca blognya Miund
lagi2 ketiban org tukang copy cat, plagiat

Gwe jadi inget beberapa hari lalu
ada seorang teman yg bisa dibilang sahabat
dr gank yg sama
yg jelas2 mengerti persis karakter gwe gimana

Kebayang ga, malam2 dia sms minta soft copy thesis gwe?
buat apa?
ga tau.

Besok paginya gwe bales sms nya, menyatakan keberatan kalo thesis gwe dijiplak
ya iyalah, secara ngerjainnya penuh dengan perjuangan
pake blood and tears!
kok ya sanggup ya bok minta thesis gwe?
gwe tawarkan bahan2nya aja, tapi doi ga mau

Bukannya gwe pelit ya
gwe tuh ga pernah sama sekali pelit kalo emang hal yg diminta wajar
waktu kuliah dulu, i dont mind at all catetan gwe dipinjemin
ga ada masalah sama sekali

tapi bok! gimana sih kamu? bknnya harusnya udh mengerti persis aku ini gimana ya?
gwe kuliah tuh bener2 PERJUANGAN neng..
ga gampang sama sekali juga

yang lebih parahnya, thesis gwe mau dijiplak buat jadiin paper doang
weleh ya terang aja aku sangat berterus terang bales sms:
"....... waduh, kok thesis aku turun derajat jd paper ya?"

srius deh ini bukan masalah apa2
tp cuma masalah etika
respect people yg udah nulis itu karyanya, jgn dgn gampilnya dijiplak kali neng!

So... hayo teman2, tulislah apa yg mau kamu tulis dgn pemikiranmu sendiri. Your state of mind!

30th

Just wanna say,
I love you more and more sayang..

Dibilangin.. ga percaya

Udah beberapa hari ini henpon gwe rusaakkkk!!

Kalo dibuka flipnya ga kedengeran suara orang yg lg nelpon gwe, nyebelin bgt! ga tau deh nih gimana, mau beli henpon lagi, tp malas.. mendingan duitnya gwe tabungin, walaupun gwe pecinta gadget, tp tak berarti gwe hobi gonta ganti telpon, yaaa.. abisan boros aja yaa.. gwe ga suka spend duit buat hal2 yg ga esensial.

Terakhir gwe beli henpon GSM itu taon brapa ya? umm.. oh wkt di Belanda! abisan gwe butuh pake 2 hp GSM untuk memudahkan komunikasi dgn kekasih tercinta yang posisinya ada di Indonesia, hp yg satu lagi untuk simcard yg lebih murah kalo nelp di Belanda dan sekitarnya.

Itu tahun 2005.

Pulang dari Malay, krn semua orang punya CDMA ya gwe beli aja yg murah2 juga.. hehe.. lama2 gwe udah keikut si papi nih, yg punya prinsip, hp itu yg penting untuk nelpon aja, sms.. udah deh.. iya sih bener juga, walopun hp berkamera, jarang tuh gwe pake.. hahaha.. ya pake kamera digital aja kalo mau motret2.

Ga tau deh nih gimana nanti gwe beli henpon lagi apa kagak, henpon yg skr gwe pake ini aja dikasi sama adek gwe, hadiah ulang tahun. hahaha.. itu juga lungsuran, walopun gwe suka juga sihh..

Cuman yaa.. yg namanya pacaran jarak jauh komunikasi lewat mana lagi kalo bukan pake henpon? jadi si pacar udh rewel banget krn ga bisa nelp gwe dgn leluasa, emang ada CDMA tp entah mengapa kita lebih suka pake GSM tuh, abisan lebih enak aja suaranya..

Jadi, td malem dia komplen nih..

Pipi: Ma, ya udah deh beli hp lagi aja, terus di-back-up dulu itu nomer2 yg ada di memory phone kamu
Mi: Yaelah papaa.. udah dibilangin aku tuh apal semua nomer.. terutama orang terdekat aku, semuanya aku apal..
Pi: Ahh.. ga percaya akuuuu
Mi: Ya udh, try me deh pa..
Pi: Nomer fren aku?
Mi: 0888786***
Pi: (cekikikan) nomer rumah aku?
Mi: 061****
Pi: nomer flexy aku?
Mi: 061****, apalagi paa?? nomer papa ayang? 0813 ********, nomer papi aku 0816*******, nomer mamah? 0888*******, nomer enye? 6012634****, nomer siapa lagi hayooo?
Pi: (ngakak2) yak ampun ternyata beneran apal semua yaaa... aku kirain tuh ayang cuman apal nomer aku ajah lhooo, masa yg di luar negeri juga apal?
Mi: Ih, dibilangin ga percaya, aku tuh cepet bgt apal semuaaaaaa nomer2, mau nomer passport kek, nomer KTP, nomer passport juga nomer papah, adek, mamah, ayang, smua nomer passport yg aku deket deh aku apal semua! nomer plat mobil semua mobil yg dulu2 jg aku apal. Nomer telpon sahabat2 aku semuanya aku apal, at least nomer telp rumah mereka aku apaaall
Pi: Kalo aku nih (ga mo kalah mode on), cuman apal nomer telp ayang..
Mi: Ya iyalah apal! kalo ga apal aku jitaaakkk... weeekkkk

Hihihihi

kesayangan

I had a really greeeaaattt day with them today

thought of the day

“Envy is the art of counting the other fellow's blessings instead of your own.”

Perempuan dan sebuah jawaban.

Tentunya, tulisan ini hanyalah jawaban dari sebuah pertanyaan. Tentunya, merupakan pernyataan.

Teman, ga ada salahnya kok belum/tidak menikah. Sungguh... Masalah laku atau tidak itu subyektif toh? tidak bisa digeneralisir. Kalau kamu menarik, menyenangkan dan tidak sombong.. percayalah walaupun km msh single.. tak akan ada orang yg menuduh tak laku.

Sepakat! Perempuan macam apa yang tega menyakiti perempuan lain? Perempuan tak laku? Mungkin.

And.. oh yeah.. I’ve been sold to the man I love. It’s in my culture (which I respect so much) and we love each other. What a perfect combination rite? Envy with red?

Feminis boleh.. tp jangan sinis sama yang manis manis donggggg

Menggila

Maksud hati tuh mau kerja di rmh
bakalan harus presentasi hari selasa, so many things so little time!

tp yg ada banyak bener gangguannya
mulai dr gwe iseng2 buka weddingku
trus malah jadi riset buat kawinan
padahal aku harusnya udh ga riset lagi sih
tp kok gwe anteng bgt yak jadi manten?
pusyong aku

Kalo ada yg nanya udah sampe manah
gwe juga ga tau udah sampe manah
huhuhu
harusnya sih gwe udh nentuin undangan kaya apaan
mau dimana
arghh!!
besok deh gwe ngurusin undangan
kalo kaga kelar2, jadi apaan kawinan akuuuu

Tapi emang karena kan beberapa minggu ini perhatian tertuju kepada si papa mertuaku yg sedang sakit
Barusan gwe berantem sama si keling busuk, sebel bgt deh
gwe udh paniiikkkk

Ik: Ayang, gimana dong? kawinan kita udh berapa persen? ini udah bentar lagiii
Liefde: Aduh sayang nanti malem aja ya bahasnya, aku lg sibuk nih

Ihhh!!!
kesel ga tuh?
gwe tuh bete nih yaa
list undangan itu udah harus dibuat kaleeee
secara undangan batak tuh turut mengundangnya aja sekampung!
berikut nama lengkap, hubungan persodaraan drmn, ditambah embel2 gelar2 yg ga boleh salah
(gwe heran sih sbenernya, narsis amat dah sama gelar.. huehuehue)

Itu aja belom2 juga diemail laki gwe!!
gerrrrrrr

Keling, mengapalah kau malas skali??
kalo gwe ada di medan mah gpp kale gwe one man show dah yg ngurusin

huks huks

mana mamah aku berlokasi di malang?
laki gwe di medan

tidaaaaaakkkkkk!!!

mau minta tolong sama siapa lagi coba?

Gwe udah bilang ke laki gwe, spy pake WO aja kaleeee
tp berhubung budget kawinan dikumpulkan berdua hasil tetesan darah dan airmata
hahahaha.. (*hiperbola)
jadi emang sih kayanya sayang bgt ya bok duitnyah
tapi kalo tak kunjung rampung gimana dong??

Kayanya gwe harus ke Medan nih
menjewer kuping si Keling bau india itu

okeh sabar ya Astridooo
pasti lancar
apa aja yg hrs diurusin??

1. Catering makanan batak -- udh beres sih ini, tapi aku harus pastiin lagi ke vendornya langsung
   
2. Dekor gereja sama dekor gedung
   
3. Mobil pengantin
4. oia Catering makanan buat temen2 kantor sama sahabat2ku tersayang
5. Jahit kebayaku (ada 2: pas wedding day sama pas martumpol)
   
6. Undangan
7. Dokumentasi--udh dapet tinggal gwe approve liat hasilnya dulu
   
8. apalagi ya? itu dulu deh

Besok deh aku urusin undangan, aku pusiiiiiinnnngg... udah banyak vendor2 undangan yg gwe temuin, tapi aku tidak percaya kalo mereka bisa bikin yg bagus, okeh.. gwe maunya yg simple, ga aneh2, tp harus bernuansa batak (iyeee.. keinginan ayahkuu). tp gwe juga ga mau yg kampungan gitu, yg cuma gambar ulos di jpg-in, ga penting bgt dah gambar yg begitu, gwe pengennya undangan gwe tuh motif ulosnya aja yg tertera di undangannya, tapi apa orang ngarti ya kalo itu undangan batak? wakakkakak.. byk maunya deh gweeeee

Catering buat sahabat2 plus temen kantor emang sengaja harus dipisah, karena:

• ga smua orang makan yg non-halal
• kasian tamu2 spesialku, ya masa dijadiin satu sama inang2 batak yg kadang rusuh2 itu

huahauhauuaa... jadi temaaaaannnn,
jgn mengharapkan acaranya bakal sophisticated deh yaa.. gwe aja udah siap2 mental dari sekarang
dijamin penuh dgn kerusuhan, walopun gwe akan mencoba meminimalisir, scara bapakku, si keling bauk, dan aku adalah orang yg perfeksioniiisss
hihihihi

oia oia,
temen kantor gwe nanya
kenapa cid ga di hotel aja?
hahahahaha
bok, kalo ada hotel yg bisa nyewain lebih dari 6 jam, dgn harga 2 jam gpp kali yaaa
dats why banyak wisma2 dan gedung2 khusus untuk kawinan batak

andaikan gwe bisa kawin di pinggir pantai, abis itu dinner doang trus hanimun, gwe pengen bgt deh nek! kawinan gwe ini, way way too far from my imagination.. hiks..
nasib!

Advice dr Facebook

Astried,
Philosophical, religious, or legal conflicts can be a real handful now. When dealing with others at today, try and control your emotions, even if those around you don't seem to be able to. Even if others lose control, you must remain levelheaded. Be sure you've done your homework before approaching anyone about a business opportunity.

Beneran nih, harus dikontrol emosi gwe

True!

The things we know best are the things we haven't been taught

-Marquis de Vauvenargues

hey you!

Menilik ke tulisan gwe di bawah..

Begini cuy
gwe juga paling benci sama orang yg berlebihan dgn status barunya (ato tdk baru) sbg Nyonya etc
biasa2 aja deh jadi orang..

gini deh, masing2 orang memang punya pendapatnya masing2

gwe juga begitu

malahan kadang2 gwe mikir, wedding thingy itu overrated

tapi kalo mereka lagi senang, just be it okay? ga perlu sirik! mau lo bilang pembenaran kaya apa juga, lo tuh sirik!

coba beneran deh ngaca.. dgn penampilan cover lo apa pantes lo ngomongin orang? sayangnya lo mungkin ga begitu kenal gwe, gwe saklek bgt jd orang, kalo gwe ga suka, ya gwe ga suka, sebenernya gwe ga perlu cape2 nulis disini untuk habek lo punya pendapat ya.. cuman ini lah gwe, gwe tau lo bakal baca ini tulisan.

to be honest, menurut gwe lo yg overrated.. see I mentioned that word 2 times! hah!
terus2 ngomongin masalah ke'single'an lo ke publik justru bikin orang mikir wah, kasian ya kamu.. tp sebenernya kamu ga mau dikasihani kan??

nah, dgn lo yg overrated itu, rasa kasian yg tadinya empathy (asli gwe mikirnya tdnya empati), jdnya krn lo sirik bgitu, lo jd pathetic tau gak?

"SIRIK yg berbuah FEMINIS"

-Memy-

so, please... act like you have to do okay?
you can be a feminist or what so ever, but why bother to people's happiness? stop questioning, stop envying.. dats the key.. dats the key honey..

*bgini nih, gwe paling ga suka orang berpenampilan luar bak suci, namun hatinya entah macam apa.. oh well, that's ur problem

Grrrrrr

Gini yaa
gwe paling benci sama orang sirik
okeh banyak memang tipe manusia aneh2
cuman kali ini gwe mau nyelepet yg sirik-an

Plis deh
just because u're single
and not married
doesn't mean u can envy to people okay?
so what?
lo pake nyentil2
karena gwe tulis I've been sold to a man I love
so what??

nih ya biar lo tau nyetih!
di adat batak itu tuh dikasi mahar dari pihak laki2
lo belajar lagi deh ttg budaya suku2 di Indonesia
ktnya lo pinter kan nyet?

sirik aja sih lo sama kebahagiaan orang?
I don't give a single damn to ur singleness
mau nungging kek, mau ke laut kek gwe GA peduli!
so don't give a damn to my life...
shit banget sih lo??

btw, lo butuh introspeksi deh kenapa lo masih juga belom laku cing!
oops, did I just say it? yesss!! ahahahha
i can be soooo mean!

Anxious me

Lately, I don't like eating

I'm worried about my father in law who is in the hospital since last Friday.

Hopefully, his health improved and back to normal again.

That is why I rarely updating my blog, although I found it very indulging to play my facebook.

I'm not interested to work, so not in the mood for working. Umm.. the latter is probably because of something else.. hehehe

Ciao

my cutie pie

Due to my father in law is in an intensive care unit for these 3 days, my baby took the responsibility to take the night shift.

He said: "Ma, I'm afraid of uka-uka here"

Baby, i love youuuu...!! you're such a cutie pie

Why I Hate Sale

5 Things Why I Hate Shopping While Sale:

1. I can't choose with peace and deep thought
2. I can't make a decision that fast
3. I can't define which one is what I need with what I want
4. I have to be in a rush in the changing room
5. It's just too crowded

??

I'm in a deep shock

Can somebody who is wearing a veil in her daily life wearing a bikini in another island? it's a total bikini, and showing off her photos in public space??? full of boobies and asses? and it's hers yaaa..

Gossip Girls feat. Ikan Panu

Beberapa hari ini, gwe dan temen2 gwe pada lagi ngasah parang semua bok
dari mulai emosi gilak, sampe akhirnya jadi ktawa2

keluar deh tuh semacam:

ikan panu
kutu got
teror bak mamak kunti

yaah... hikmahnya banyak ya teman-teman,

1. nambah jaringan pertemanan
2. tau yg namanya orang muka 2
3. sintingnya horay kalo marah

I lop u all dah!

1, 2, 3

Ada banyak tipe manusia memang.

Namun, setelah gwe amati, setidaknya di sebuah lingkungan kerja, paling tidak ada 3 tipe manusia (khusus untuk yang jelek2 aja):
1. Penjilat
2. Penggosip
3. Sombong

Dibahas nih ya..

1. Penjilat, tipe ini sebenarnya tidak terlalu punya 'otak', namun disebabkan kemampuannya akan menjilat, makanya 'pantat'nya selalu aja selamet

2. Penggosip, biasanya sih ini golongan lumayan punya 'otak' deh, soalnya kemampuan dia menyerap gosip dibarengi dengan bekerja diatas rata2 lah.. hahaha.. yg ga kepikiran juga bisa digosipin bok! berarti kreatif kan otaknya?

3. Sombong, nah ini gwe males nih... sok2 bangga berlebihan, gwe lulusan ini lho, cepet lho gwe lulusnya, gwe cumlaude lho, gwe tuh pinter bgt, gwe gwe gwe dan gwe.. yeah rite!

Gwe paling anti sama nomer 1 dan 3, kalo nomer 2 sebenernya kalo kita diem2 aja dengerin (plus menikmati gosip juga sih), ga akan ada masalah

Tapiiiiiii....
ketika ternyata yang jadi bahan gosip itu gwe gimana?? mau marah rasanya!! berita2 ga penting diplintir sedemikian rupa, sampe pula ke kuping gwe!! baahh!! yg begini nih, bikin gwe mikir, mendingan ngadepin yang nomer 1 dan 3 deh bok, bisa langsung aja gwe semprot.. hahahaha
yg susah nih kalo gerilya2 dibalik punggung ini lho... no wonder berapa kali tuh Belanda kalah sama gaya perang kita yg suka gerilya itu (nyambung cid? haha)

Eh, ada yg lebih parah lagi nih, kebanyakan sih, yg kombinasi tuh, nomer 1 dan 2, nomer 1 dan 3, atau 1, 2, 3.. Doh! kalo sama semuanya, hedek juga dah kpala eike.. blah! dunia oh dunia..

Sailormoon

Aku suka bgt sama komiknya, sama filmnya, sama merchandise nya, semuanya deh tentang sailormoon hihihihi

apalagi dulu pas masih kecil eh ga kecil2 bgt siyy..

sampe2 bokap pernah ke Jepang, aku dibeliin kartunya (kalo adek gwe pesen kartu basket/baseball, aku pesen kartu2 sailormoon), dibeliin apa tuh namanya yaaa... jd semacam alat cintanya si sailormoon deh, yg bentuknya bintang trus kalo dibuka lagunya bunyi, warnanya emas tuh bintang, mayan gede deh.. waahhh, bangga bgt aku punya bgituan.. hihihihi, buat gwe itu ciamik bgt (caelah ciamik), abisan stiap gwe punya maenan, barbie misalnya, cuma sebatas boneka2nya ajah tuh, ga pernah kesampean beli rumahnya, makanya kalo lewat jln fatmawati ada tukang bikin rumah barbie, gwe pst ngeliat netes2.. hahaha liat ajaaa nanti aku akan punyaaa!!!

eh td ngomongin apa?

oh iya. . sailormoon! hihihi

sebenernya yg gwe suka dr sailormoon itu karena dia pahlawan pembela kebenaran (eh emangnya ada pahlawan yang bukan pembela kebenaran yak?)

jadiii... dari kecil sampe skr rasa keadilan gwe selalu terusik kalo ada orang yg tertindas.. apa ini ngaruh karena gwe Libra? mungkin juga ya bok, tapi emang didikan emak babe gwe juga bgitu sih.. say whatever you feel, eventhough it hurts..

seiring gwe remaja, sampe segede skr ini, gwe paling ga suka kalo ada orang ngelakuin hal2 yang bisa nyakitin siapapun yg gwe sayang, ga usah cuma nyakitin, bikin bete org yg gwe sayang aja gwe bisa emosi to the max!

yaaa.. kalo kata mamah sih, udah bawaan orok tuh begitu...

emang sih jadinya bawaan judes, krn kadang2 orang suka susah menerima kalo dikritik walaupun itu bener

kaya' skr ini, kalo temen gwe ngadu ttg sesuatu ke gwe, gwe pasti pengeeeenn bgt ngelakuin sesuatu buat bantuin dia

kaya di kantor nih, ada orang yg selaluuuuu aja nyusahin semua orang, dan walaupun gwe anak baru, tapi teteuuupppp ya bok, gwe pengen berantas tuh orang, well.. at least, gwe tegor deh...

begitulah kelakuanku


Sailormoon!!!

and ehmm.. btw, this is one of my friends that I really care of
and to u as well memy
okay, make it into two.. oh well, more than that actually.. ahhahaa..

mmmuuaaaccchhh!!

laki gwe laporan semalem

jd kan yang, pas aku telpon mami (yess.. my mom), udh ngobrol2 segala macem deh, ya udh mau udahan kan tuh, kan aku mau kerja, aku bilang gini ma:
"ok deh nantulang, sehat2 ya nantulang nanti aku telpon lagi....." trus hampir aku sudahin dengan:

mmmmmuuuuaaaacccchhhh!!

WAKAKAKAKAKKAKAKAKAKAKAKKAKAKAKAKAKAKKAK...

ASLI! gwe ngakak2 sampe sakit peruuuttt...

laki gwe itu lucuuuuuuuu sekali! saking gwe lah satu2nya cewe yg sering on the phone sama dia (ya bok, scr eike LDR yaakk, do I need to say more?) jadi emang kebiasaan dia ya kissy2 gwe by phone.. udah gitu suara gwe sama emak gwe sama (ga cuman suara sih, muke juga... hihihihi)

sayang, kamu lucu sekali, udah tengah malem masiiiihhh aja bisa bikin aku ngakak

dia malu tuuuhh.. smp bikin gwe berjanji2 ga akan bilang sama mamah

ehmm.. bilang ga yaaaa... hihihihi

MYOB!

I hate it when people pushing

and

questioning

about my religious activityyyyyyyyy!!!!

MYOB! you know that??? Mind Your Own Business!!!

you are not a saint yourself

my behavior is between me and GOD

so get LOSS!!!

anonymous

I'm a member of several online forum

I prefer to be anonymous in the virtual world, but well... you cant be that anonymous, especially if you have a blog like this, but still.. I don't want to be that open.

For me, privacy matters.. I'm not the type that telling everything to everyone, though maybe many of you see me as an extrovert person, but I only tell stories of mine to my comfort friends my best friends.

I don't know why I'm writing this, it's just crossed my mind during my work in the office, maybe because I see many people that I know in the real world in this particular forum.. hehe

Okay, back to work ;)

bored

I need some funnnnnnnnn

anyone?

There u go

SPOTTED

Bunch of beautiful girls wearing kebaya

the beautiful bride and groom

we are the happy friends

HAPPY WEDDING ALFALDA, WE LOVE YOUUUUU!!!

Seriously

I need some sleep..

Dear...

Hi! I'm here in Balikpapan, never been here before, sooo.. this is my first time!

I can say, it looks like in JB, where the city is soooo small! but everything is expensive here-so I heard from the salesman in Balikpapan Plaza who approached me to buy a kiosk in that plaza. hahaha..

I'm here alone in the room, I have so much trouble mobilizing here because I'm now staying in the same hotel with SBY, yes the RI 1 with his wife.. oh well, so many bodyguard, busy to keep their eyes on people around, well..ok it's their job


anyways, my boss says, this is why people have post-power syndrome, too many unimportant-busy people licking ass and also back-stabbing in the same time


okay, continueee..(yeah yeah.. I'm a blabber)

I've arrived at 12pm in Bandara Sepinggan, straight to a seafood restaurant, i ate ikan kueeee! woku pedeess tp nyam nyamm.. the staff here thought I am Manadonesse.. hohoho... no mister, I'm Pejabat-Peranakan Jawa Batak.. heeee....

Btw, my baby is not making a fuss anymore, his brother really give him some lesson. there you go! you just have to stop worrying about me all the time baby, I'll be okay, I'm the jeger remember? hehehe..

I miss him now, can't wait for the daaaayyyy!!

from the desk of 423, GS, KT-

I'm no good for formal pics :(

I hate all of my photos for formal IDs..

my present passport


okay, here I at least smilling

working visa (dahuluuu)


and ini sangat mbak2 yaa.. pusing gwe

recently US visa


asli ini ga sukaaaaaaaaaa bgt!

ini us visa 7 taun lalu


yg ini mayan deh.. ihihihi (makanya gwe pejeng)

this is the worst part




Oh heck!

From the Ex's Eyes

I've been thinking

my last conversation with my brother

the thing is, his ex was exaggerating about him, she said that he doesn't have any future, hasn't grown-up and so on..

I told him to not listen to it, then he must improve himself not for everybody but for himself.



Sometimes, if your heart is broken you would say nasty thing about the person that you loved, but do you really mean it? I dont think so, by the way you said it, there! you still have feeling for them.
I've been there.. trust me, release your feeling in other way, it's for yourself.

and I'm not talking here as his (loving, one and only) sister.

Adios!

Bridezilla (Pardon me)

I don't fancy jewelries, don't know why.. especially gold etc. I tend to put the jewels and not wearing it. Maybe because I dont want to be looking like 'ibu2 sasak', 'tante2 hore' atau emang karena emang ga suka aja.

Tapi here.. I love these sandals (some jewels added), maybe for my wedding day?


You know whatever your wardrobe is, if you wear a great shoes, bang! you're gorgeous (at least you feel like it)

Btw, sorry for the upcoming posts, it's gonna be about wedding and wedding, cause I'm preparing one, that's all that I can think of. hahaha

Roast Chicken

Pengen makan Nando's tapi males keluar, jadi gwe lagi bikin Roast Chickennya sendiri aja deh..

all you need:

• 1 chicken, yg utuh jangan dipotong2, tapi dagingnya diseset2 (biar bumbunya meresap)
  
• daun sereh digeprek, terus diiket
  
• mustard
• mentega
• garam secukupnya
• maggi block (i know ini ga bagus, but i like it)

cara membuat:

• balurin ayam dengan bahan2 diatas (mentega, mustard, garam dikit ajah, maggi blok diancurin biasanya gwe masukin ke dalem ayamnya, u know the 'selangkangan' hehe)
• masukin juga serehnya tadi
• diemin dulu kira-kira 30 menit, lebih bagus lagi kalo sehari sebelumnya (masukin kulkas)
• panggang deh ke oven (microwave oven will do)
• voila jadi deh!

gampang kan? ga susah2 deh... sajikan sesuai selera, kalo gwe sih teteup pake nasi.. hahaha... tapi boleh juga bikin french fries, sama rebus wortel, buncis gitu.. nyaammm..

nanti gwe post deh gambarnya, aku lagi malas nih.. hehe

Miracle

Baru baca koran kompas, gila!! God is good, in His way showing miracle

Jadi Suster Bernadette yang sudah almarhumah dari tahun 1879, bayangin! udh brapa abad tuh? jenazahnya sampe sekarang masih utuh tuh tuh.. asli! skr ditaro di peti kaca. Ga pake pengawet apapun, saking anehnya (in a good way), udah diteliti beberapa kali, no one can answer this phenomenon!

Aku pengen ah kesana, di Perancis Selatan.

Ah.. God is reaaalll good :)

A Proud Alumni

Ohhh.. How I love Atma Jaya now.. hahaha..

Ada perkembangan yg sangat berarti, skr atma punya ini: http://lib.atmajaya.ac.id/
udh gitu ada WestLaw yang sangat kusukai, ohhh... udah keren bgt deh Atma.. bangga juga gwe akhirnya sama Atma.. kikikikikik... :D

Bentar lg kayanya sistem Blackboard dimulai deh nih, click here

Harus gitu dong.. kalo mau maju, ya perpustakaan juga harus dibagusin, sistem dokumentasinya janganlah bapuk, yg namanya mahasiswa ya emang harus gampang dpt akses informasi, apalagi gwe liat skripsiku dulu udah ada lho disitu.. Me likey!

*akhirnya aku posting blog* hehehe

Susah banget idup ini.. tai

Marhusip aka Proposal Day

Kemaren itu acara marhusip alias lamaran. Sebenernya tahapannya banyak banget di keluarga Batak gwe itu, tapi yaa.. hare geneee udah harus dipotong2 aja ahhh.. daripada ribet bolak balik, Jkt-Mdn aja gitu lhoo..

Tadinya ga mau bikin report disini, takut pamali, tapi yaa.. secara "I've been sold" gitu jadi ya ga apa deh ya, lagian sekalian untuk laporan ke orang2 terkasih yang jauh dariku, semacam My nyenye sayang, Marjorie, and of course my dearest Tita.

Acara dimulai jam 11an, molor dari yg seharusnya jam 10, abisan yaaa daerah rumah gwe itu macet bin ngadat jalanannya, jadi no wonder yaa..

Sempet agak khawatir juga, apa rumah muat gituu.. soalnya dari keluarganya dan keluargaku itu tadinya ditotal yang dateng cuma 35 orang, nah kenyataannya nyampe tuh 45-50 orang.
No worries, muat juga rumah gwe. hahaha

Pagi-pagi bangun langsung mikir: "Hey! Today is my day! hahaha" sambil nyengir2 sendiri.

Okay lanjuuuttt...

Harus digarisbawahin disini yaa, lamaran disini is not an engagement day, we have our 'promise ring' earlier, tapi kalo di Batak tidak boleh dan tidak ada yang namanya itu tunangan2, adanya nanti pre-announcement seminggu sebelum menikah, or at least 2 minggu sebelumnya. Lagipula, menurut gwe tunangan itu is just a waste of time.. hehehe... dan ga jelas statusnya.. apakah pacaran? apakah sudah kawin? hihihii... sori buat yg tunangan, tapi itu kan cuman pemikiran gwe aja yaaa...

Setelah acara makan-makan jam 12, dimulai lah acara bincang-bincang, antara 2 keluarga, Panjaitan dengan Simangunsong. Kira-kira begini pembicaraannya, (kadang2 gwe suka lost in translation, karena asli ga bisa bahasa batak, and I'm not proud of it, gwe pengen banget bisa bahasa batak. and Jawa ofkors. hahaha) Jadi gwe cuma nulis intinya aja yaa..

P: Maksud kedatangan kami disini, adalah untuk melamar boru dari Simangunsong untuk anak kami, dimana mereka sudah menjalin hubungan beberapa lama (bok, lama beneeerrr!!) hahahaa), sudi kiranya Hula-hula nami* menerima pinangan dari kami

Nah, yg jawab disini bukan papaku yaa.. karena papa msh punya abang, jadi abangnya aka patua gwe yg in-charge.. hhihiii

S: Terimakasih atas kedatangannya, sangat to the point sekali yaa.. (ktawa2 smua), sekarang yang perlu ditanyakan, boru kami yang mana yaa.. karena kami punya boru banyak banget.

Hoalah.. patua gweeeee.... dia ngelawak aja lho bok! wakakakakkk...

P: bla bla bla.. maksud kami adalah si Astried

S: Kalau dari kami tidak ada masalah, tapi dimana bere yang mau ngelamar itu?

(pacarku tidak dateng, krn emang ini acara orangtua only)

S: atau ya tanya langsung ke boru kami si Astried

S (Patua): Jadi inang, apakah sudah mantap dengan pilihanmu? tidak ada alternatif lain?

Papiku (nyeletuk): emang ada alternatif lain? (ktawa smua) hahahahahaha... jalan kali alternatif

Me: (malu2 mau) hahahaa... yaa aku sudah mantap patua, ini juga jalannya bkn jalan alternatif dan juga bukan jalan tol... (ya bookk, secara emang kita berdua jalanin pacaran yg emang tough road)

S: Okay, kalau memang begitu, kami terima lamarannya.

Legaaaa........... (eh belum deng sampe nanti kawin.. hihihihi)

Terus ada acara berdoa (pastinya dong!), sama seserahan, jgn pikir seserahan itu kaya adat Jawa yaa.. pake segala barang-barang dsb itu, disini seserahannya itu adalah: BABI! hahaha.. yup the piglet, lengkap lengkip, utuh, tapi ya ga idup dong, udh dimasak, harus lengkap tuh dari kepala sampe buntutnya.. diluar itu juga ada sangsang (baca: saksang) total dagingnya ada 35 kg! gila kan... banyak bgt sampe beugah, coba ada enye na.. pasti udah abis deh nih daging2. hehehee... pulang aja napa nye??

anyways, adatnya tuh, sebagai tanda penghormatan, dari pihak keluarga kita-Simangunsong, kita ngasi ikan mas arsik.. ini harus dibawa pulang...

di sela-sela acara setelah selesai pembentukan panitia, bikin format acara and stuff, gwe selipin acara perayaan ulang tahun, udah gwe beli blackforest cake. Berhubung di bulan Mei ini, adekku satu2nya yg tersayang ulang tahun yg ke-22, terus ponakan gwe tersayang-Jeremy ulang tahun yg ke-5, udah gitu Amangboru Wandi ulang tahun juga, mereka ulang tahun bener-bener berurutan lhooo... tgl 6, 7, 8 Mei..

Semoga enye panjang umur ya, tercapai semua cita2, selalu jadi anak baik di dalam jalan Tuhan. Amin. :) Walaupun ga ktemu kaka papi sama mami, tapi doanya sampe na... hihihi.. love u enye!

Btw, here are the pics, so many orbs eh? Hopefully it's a good sign :) Thank you God.

both of the fam have to bless the food

* Hula-hula nami= raja kami
* Boru= anak perempuan

Read Dalihan Na Tolu for further information

Panik panik panik

Ngeeehhh... paniikkk!!

asli nih ya.. seharian ini cuman browsing browsing aja, pdhal idung meler2, puyeng2

Tadi sih luluran panggil ke rumah, enak banget berasa enteng, soalnya dipijit2 juga ya bok. Paling ga gwe luluran+pijit2 di rmh 2 kali deh sebulan. Kenapa di rmh? soalnya laki gwe slalu paranoid kalo gwe mau spa2an di salon.. payah daahhh

Btw, kenapa aku panik? karena aku sedang survey besar2an!! ga ada yg bisa diajak diskusi, soalnya laki gwe cuek bin sebodo teuing.. hahaha.. ga gitu juga sih, tapi yg pasti kadar paniknya kaga kaya gwe ya bok, trus emak gwe juga jauh amat, susah pan aye curhat2, yg ada krn panik bawaan jd jutek aja nih gwe, udh mana mau dapet pula kan ya bok.. hihihihi... laki gwe udh pasang langkah mundur seribu bok, secara gwe lagi galak amat.

Maaakkk.. tolong napa maaakk!!

*kan niet wachten.. hihihi

Halloooo!!

Pardon me my blog, fear not.. I'm here to post you.. hehehe

Halloooooo.... kasian bgt nih blog gwe abandoned, lg ga ada yg perlu diceritain juga, kehidupan percintaan.. lancar... kehidupan karir... lancar... Grafik kehidupan cenderung naik nih trendnya.. Mudah-mudahan begini terus yaa..

Tadi pergi jait kebaya untuk kawinannya AlfAlda di Pasar Sunan Giri Rawamangun, baru pertama kali bok kesana, ada tukang jait QZM, yang ternyata artinya Kosim, nama sang Pemilik. Gara2nya gwe lagi pengen survey tempat jahit kebaya, terus liat-liat di beberapa forum ini termasuk recommended place, ya ga ada salahnya deh dicoba, walaupun aku kurang pewe sih dgn tempatnya yg di pasar itu, udah gitu sekarang jatuhnya mahal dibanding cerita dr orang-orang. Makan siang dulu sama temen kantor yg baik bgt mau nemenin kesana.

Gwe heran deh bok, kenapa ya setiap mau bikin kebaya, gwe blank aja gitu.. ga kepikiran mau bikin bentukan kaya apaan. Haha.. Padahal gwe udah sering bgt ngumpul2in gambar, teteup ya nenek2 pikun, ga dibawa aja gitu hasil print poto2 kebaya.. hahaha.. begoooo!!!

Oh well, mudah-mudahan hasilnya bagus deh yaaa... tapi kalo ga ya sudahlah, namanya juga lagi trial.. Kenapa aku trial.. karena oh karena.. hehehehe

Kangen deh sama teman2ku, kehidupan sosial kurang seimbang nih, ngumpul2lah kita gals! anyone care to join?

The Tattoo

When we met a month ago, I finally able to see his new 'art', umm... the tattoo
What surprised me that his tattoo was sooooooo huge! he never told me, but well.. what can I do? too late to complain. hehehe.. and actually he added colors in the tattoo without me knowing about it, this is the bad thing when you have a long distance relationship, you just can't really know about the little tiny details. But, hey! what can I do? it's good though.. Just crossing my fingers that he didn't do anything bad. Oh.. we have the trusts, you can tell by the period of relationship that we had right?

So.. enough mumbling, here we go:

Freakishly Weird

Do u think so?




I DO!!

Maap, mba Inul, I think you should find a great make-up artist, do not follow KD's path please or else you look this scary. Trust me.

Wikenku

Jumat, 25 April 2008

Welcoming new baby born girl of Noely and Mauly named Kirana Putri Ardya. Ahh...Tante ga sabar deh liat kamu...karena lahir di Bandung, sementara belum punya waktu buat ke Bandung, jadi see you in 2 months ya both the mommy and the daughter. Seneeeenngg bgt denger kabar berita ini, yg kerennya Noely juga ulang taun di hari ini. Awesome! Congrats ya sayang!

Pulang kantor beres2 di kos, langsung ngaciiirr ke kantor ayah, diajak makan di Gran Mahakam, buffet dinner! nyam nyam.. enyaaaaakkkk... kasihanilah aku nasib anak kos, makannya limited. hahahaha

Sabtu, 26 April 2008

Milih-milih ini itu, bah! pusing ya ternyata bookkk! ampun deh gwe.. tapi gpp aku senang nang nang nang.. hihihi

Sampe rumah lsg terkapar ngoroookkk...

Hari ini? ada kawinan, tapi aku agak malas, liat nanti dehh.. hehehe

love facebook

eh eh seneng deh. masa skr dari facebook bisa ceting lhoo.. hiihihi

:-s

baru aja tahap pertama udah bikin ribet.. uhuhuh...pusing deh gwe

^_^

Aduh aduh aku lagi bingung niiiiihhhhh..

Banyak amat kerjaan pribadi juga di kantor, sempet ga? sempet ga?
arrrgghhhhh!!

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Jam segini masih di kantor, enaknya sih udah sepi yaa.. tapi tetep ga konsen, abisan masih ada 4 orang lagi tapi semuanya pada perang lagu di komputer masing-masing, gini nih kalo babeh ga ada..

Btw, ini sekelebat pembicaraan aku dan dirinya tadi malam:

Him: Sayang, gpp ga aku makan sambil ngomong nih yaa..
Me: Ih ayang, ya gpp lah.. geli ih kaya lagi pedekate aja...
Him: (ngakak2)

udah ngobrol ngalor ngidul nihh...

Me: Pa, gpp ga ya aku tidur nih udah malem bgt (jam11an kalo ga salah)
Him: Ya udah ayang, gpp na. Pake ijin segala kaya pedekate aja

Sialaannn!! dibales gwe! hahahaha

Me: (LOL) iya sayang kan pedekate mau kawin! hahahahhaa

..........................

Him: Ayang ayang, kenapa ya seminggu ini ayang lembuuutt banget sama aku? tumben deh..
Me: lah emang biasanya ga ya?
Him: Umm.. ga kaya sekarang sih.. Kenapa gitu yaa?
Me: Kan mau kawin! hahahahahhaa

Gitu deh kawin kawin kawin... Here we comeeeee!!!

To: KikyCrazyBeautiful

Kyy... nih ky kebetulan gwe lagi nyariin lagunya Brandy sama Monica

The boy is mine, soundtrack lo banget tuh buat akhir-akhir ini.. HAHAHAHAHHAHAHAA

my girls' soundtrack

Pagi-pagi begini baca sms dr sang sahabat yang tinggal nun jauh disana beda waktu almost 24 hrs, sms nya bikin terharu. Sama-sama ga terima Bilbo udah ga ada, sebeeellll...

Kalo kita bilang kangen ya emang kangen bok, bukan lip service belaka. Gwe emang begitu, kalo tiba2 temen yg cuma casual2 aja bilang kangen mah eike ga bakal bilang kangen balik.. haha.. kejam? yaa.. emang hrs bgitu aja bok! Kaya pacaran, gwe ga mungkin bilang I love you without actually mean it. Bener dong?

Ngeliat balik ke bahasan sahabatku yg lagi seneng reminiscing ke masa lalu, dia juga sukses banget bikin gwe mau nangis. Kangen banget coiy masa-masa itu!!

Ga malu kok ngakuin, gwe generasi R&B yang lagu-lagunya selalu nemenin di setiap momen, momen jadian, momen gebet cowo, momen putus cinta, momen seneng, momen bandel-bandel bareng Tim Horay, momen gila-gilaan ala angkatan dan gank gwe. Ahhh... masa SMA emang beneran cihuy! I have a very great youth time, especially during high school time. Love it!

Lagu yang paling sering keputer di mobil B 309 EK waktu dulu tuh ya lagu-lagu yg dipampangkan si Memy

Waktu Lisa TLC meninggal gwe nangis bok, eh ga lama Aaliyah meninggal, yak ampuuuuunnn... gimana coba ga sedih? tapi sebenernya gwe bukan tipe orang yang seneng banget gila-gilaan mengidolakan seseorang atau sesuatu, biasa aja, cuman ya emang karya-karya mereka itu yang gwe seneng.

Nih gwe kasi single debut-nya Aaliyah, RIP you beautiful girl.



PS: Monica, Brandy kemana kalian sayang? huhu

Ahem..

Saya sedang senang.

Cuma mau kasi tau itu aja. hehehe

Questions of the day

1. Why do men played the same old boring game in relationship: "us as a kite"
2. How the hell is going on with our crazy stuff?
3. Can I just be ordinary? to you?
4. Are you interested?
5. Can you please just count the goodness?
   
6. Why do I always wake very early in the morning every weekends?
7. As for the weekdays I'm too lazy to wake up?

Too many questions in my head now.
I shud just go straight to the malls, to ease my mind

Jadwal hari ini:

• krimbat ke salon-- besok
  
• panggil tukang pijit, luluran-- besok
  
• ketemu Horay di PIM-- check.. tp jdnya cuman b2 sm si alfa
  
• ke PS dulu?-- check
  
• ke tukang jahit-- besok
  

ihh... bisa apa dalam 1 hari? we'll see

updated: tnyata ga bisa cong! arrggh... lusa kan udah kerja.. dooohhh

So long Bilbo van Douhan

Bilbo passed away today this morning at 2am..
Bubye sayang, aku sedih sekali.. hiks.. jgn nakal yaa...

:'(

Hey! Long time no see eh? hehe
Been busy like a bee, sorry.. *brasa ada fans gwe yg bacain ini blog.. hahaha

Apa yaa? umm... ga ada bahan niiiiiiihhhhh tp pengen nulis aja abisan kangen
oia, my Bilbo masuk opname hr ini, kasian skali, kayanya kena virus tikus deh.. doain anjing lucuku itu sembuh yaa.. hiks hiks.. puyeng gwe denger kabar begitu

Btw, aku merindu kekasihku.. huks huks.. dia lagi paranoiiiiiiiiddd terus karena gwe ngekos.. hehehe.. biasalah over protective, tapi lucu :P

ya udh ah mau lanjut kerja lagi, ngantuk nih tapi mengingat besok udah hari Jumat, aku seneng deh.. Happy Weekend all!

Maen2

Bok bok
maen2 deh ya ke tempat kos gwe, keren deh tempatnya. beneran. hihihihi...
merantau lagi deh nih eike... *di rawamangun..

my bahasa is not that good anymore? oh pleaseeee....

Exaggerating tuh ga bagus buat kesehatan jiwa lo
beneran deh...

*pikiranku ketika membaca sebuah tulisan dimana seseorang yg adalah asli Indonesia, lahir, tinggal, besar di Indonesia, kemudian kuliah ke luar negeri yg baru-baru ini saja (baca: +/- 1 tahun), lalu seketika bahasa Indonesia-nya menjadi pelo'.

Sungguh aneh.

I am my own guard

My daddy is a wonderful parent (i might have to repeat this when there's time I dislike him.. well during our cat-dog fight)

We had a long conversation tonight, he utterly speaking about relationship between man and woman, husband and wife.

about intrigues in the office, how an affair would happen, and there the circle of satan is exist, the real world.

I guess that's how my father taught me about life, how I have to guard my self and not guard my man. Make boundaries with colleagues in office in the way of feelings, and how you have to be professional only, and please bold the professional word.

I, myself, hopefully able to do those tasks, as a (future) wife of him.

In other way around, my father made a polite warning for me to make the guard to myself. Thanks dad!

news of the day

I finally able to open this blog of mine.
phew!

What's new with me? nothing much..

I got a bad news about my bestfriend's family, ignore it yaa bebe..

I miss my Pipi sooo much! Errr.. Last week was really tired days, though I'm soo happy spent time with him around Jkt, and we didn't go to the malls as always, quality time is way more important, talking talking, pecking pecking.. haha

I'd like to post pics, videos here, but since one of my best friends has some issues with stupid moron people, I choose not to post it.

Good niteeee!! time to sleep for me

A Speed Lady

O yeaahh.. I'm a speed lady! I love speeding! hehehe

.........

My new office is in Pulogadung, from the 1st time I knooowww... Jakarta Selataners rarely been there. Like me, I've never been there (or here)... in my imagination Pulogadung is a creepy place, thank God it's not in front of the Pulogadung Station.. hihi

I like it here, i mean in the new office, the people is cheerful, welcoming me :) and i like the job.

Also, I like the traffic, although maybe I have to travel like for 1-1,5 hour through the highway, it doesn't matter yaa... cos if I have to go to Sudirman it's impossible I can reach there in an hour.

and noww... I'm waiting for my baby, he'll be arrived at 22, pick him up, straight to my house, then we have to wake up in the very early in the morning plus.... I have to prepare him a breakfast ;)

Life's good :)

mijn zwaarte piet :D

From:	Astried
Date:	Monday, 31 March, 2008 8:17 PM
Subject:	zwaarte piet naar djakarta
Message:	1. Who was the last person of the opposite sex you had a conversation with? si bebe 2. Where is the last place you went? no whr to goooo... the last bociang kalo kt nye :P 3. What was the last beverage you consumed? sprite 4. Thoughts at this moment? I'm gonna be tired for this week... but it's okay :) 5. Do you bite your lips a lot? not that a lot 6. What is more essential - a pretty face or a great body? great body with a macho face :D 7. Medicine, fine arts, or law? oh i have to choose law in this matter 8. What do you want? good career, good husband, good marriage, good children :) 9. Best kind of pizza? no stuffed crust 10. Favorite drink? water 11. Do you miss anyone? yessss... 12. What were you doing at 11:59 PM on Saturday night? waiting a phone call 13. Who do you hate? nobody ;) 14. Who was the last person you had in your room? devy 15. Is your room clean? ofkorsss 16. Can you speak another language? oh well 17. What are you going to do tomorrow? working! ha! :D 19. Who was the last band you saw live? eleanor. I miss you boys! :) 20. What are you waiting for? work work work him him him 21. Do you take care of your friends while they're sick? oh yesss.. u shud ask Marjorie, Nita, Noely, Uwi, Dhiko etc.. guys, admit it i'm good at massaging :D 22. Do you like to read? ohee 23. Do you go for brands? not all the time 24. When was the last time you purchased something over $250? how much is dat? i cant count.. heeee :P 25. What are your pets? 2 spoiled dogs, 1 stupid dog, a turtle, fish, birds. huaa 26. Favorite colors? oranje. 27. Who is your favorite person to have a serious conversation with? dad+mom+my bestfriends+nye+and surely mr. bmpan 28. Where was the last place you drove? everywhere 29. Nickname? ask my friends please 30. Where do you want to go? no where. my bed maybe? 31. What do you want to do? hv a conversation with bebe, but he's too damn busy 32. What are you wearing? daster 33. What brand of digital camera do you own? my broken sony :( 34. Did someone make you mad??? I'm in a happy mood now 35. Why??? becauseee... piet hitam is coming to town 36. When is your birthday? oct 20 37. Who was the last person to sleep over at your house? memy? i think you.. :-s.. happy birthday marjiee!! 38. Who gave you your last compliment? siapa yaa 39.Who was the last to make you smile/laugh? the travel agent :D 40. What was the last CD you bought? i'm a pirate! :D x)

Horeee!!!!

He's coming to town.